Okay boys, so my last thread was about her saying some **** about me. I confronted her about it last night and it completely backfired in my face. We started talking about that and then she got into the whole speech where she can't believe I did a girl on vacation (even though we were on a break) and every time I think about it gets me madder and madder. So we ended up taking a break so she can straighten out her "emotions"...Now I don't liek this...I still like this girl so FUC**N MUCH so I can't let her get away from me. HOW CAN I GET HER TO COME BACK TO ME
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I want her back..
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
shydude
Master Don Juan
I am with "I am me" she should have never know about other women. And second of all, if u really like her or even love her, then u should not let her go. Dont go and appologize for banging another chik or for saying bad ****, Just take her somewhere nice, like a a nice dinner and sex. Or invite her to ur crib light the candles, put some Rod Stewart clasics, and make out. Remember make out after a nice dinner
nono, i didn't tell her...everyoen in my school knew and she jsut found out from everyone else. once i knew that she knew i told her so it looked like i was coming clean....and she brought this up...so what shoudl i do? give her space? try gettin back immediately? wait for her to be ready?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
its too late, and shes the most naiive girl in the school so she believes EVERYTHING that she's told. She told me she didn't care about it but 2 days ago she told me online that everytime she thinks about it she gets madder and madder and its driving her away from me and she needs some time to get her feelings straightened out....WTF can I do? I NEED her
girlsarecrazy
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Don't call her, Don't answer her calls, Cut off contact from her until she comes begging for you!
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
lmao, dis was on friends last night
yea but ignoring her calls woudl give her the impression that i want NOTHING to do with her and she'll just move on....and let me add that i am going to prom with this girl still...but i need her by my side every day i just feel like a completley diffrent person w/o her
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
VegasGuy56
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NoNoNoNoNo. Having her think you've forgotten about her is a GOOD THING. Stop talking to her and wait for her to come back to YOU. If you try to chase her you'll push her farther away.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Seriously man, now is a good time to go over the "Kill that Desperation!" post in the Bible. You're getting too worried about this. You don't NEED her. Remember that.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
girlsarecrazy said:
Don't do this cuz you will hammer the nails in the cofin if you do this. the last thing you need is for her to think that you don't give a flying F*** and that is why you are not communicating and probably running around with another girl.
try being honest with her and telling her what you feel without coming across as wimpy/needy.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
Well, what are your priorities? Where do you place girls, and where do you place yourself? Answer this and PM me, and I might just be able to help. I will be thinking of a fix for you, although I can only 100% promise good, solid advice.toddC said: