You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
if you're just starting out, I wouldn't buy vacant land b/c you're paying for something that won't give you anything unless you develop it or sell it to some developer.Originally posted by skumface
you guys are all suggesting houses and duplexes, what about vacant property?
Ive heard stories about land values going up by $1,000's of dollars per acre in a matter of years. What is the market like for selling land to say franchises like Wal-Mart or McDonalds which i know for a fact pay good money.
Land is of course cheaper to buy without anything on it so it could possibly be a good starting point when money is tight.
What are your insights on it??
Originally posted by Inc. ®
Page,
Since you're giving so much advice, why don't you disclose the properties you own and other investments you have?
This thread is hilarious. I remember you, Page, a few months ago trying to learn everything you could from STR8UP about how to invest in real estate. Now, you've gone out and read a few books and you think you know everything?
I don't mean to be harsh, but you're 21 years old, don't have much experience, and I'm unsure you even own any properties. Most of your advice appears good and I don't have the experience to dispute it either, but please make it clear to these guys whether you've actually tried the things you are recommending and how long you've been doing it.
Perhaps, a better thread for those interested in real estate would be STR8UP's thread (where Page was the one asking questions):
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=22304&perpage=20&pagenumber=14
Well, we can see there that as of about 3 months ago, it looks like Page had no investments whatsoever.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
The world has changed so much in the last 50 years that you can't really do that and be financially secure anymore. Job security is a thing of the past. Companies crumble overnight these days and pensions can disappear into nothing just like that.Originally posted by skeeloo
whateva happened to working your way through a job.
Actually, they don't even teach you that. The main thing you learn is ethics and how to stay out of hot water by sticking to the law.Plus, in the real estate classes you need to get the license, you don't learn anything that you really need to invest, oyu just learn how to sell houses.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This doesn't happen overnight. You can start now and probably end up owning your first asset property by the end of 3.5 years if you push yourself hard enough, but at that point, you would still be a long ways from financial freedom, which is what you really want out of all this. Getting rich quick is a dream that doesn't really exist in the real world unless you start dealing coke or something like that. Building legitimately-acquired wealth takes time, and you WILL have to work your a$$ off in the first few years, but once your cashflow becomes self-sustaining it will all be worth it b/c then, and only then, you will be able to live life at your own pace and do what you want to do while everyone else is still punching the clock until age 65.Originally posted by longwood
10 years would be cool, but naw, y not 3 1/2
Actually, while what you're saying is right, you're speaking of what's called by many RE investors, Negative Cashflow , or simply by its nickname, alligator.Originally posted by Page
You can start now and probably end up owning your first asset property by the end of 3.5 years if you push yourself hard enough, but at that point, you would still be a long ways from financial freedom, which is what you really want out of all this. Getting rich quick is a dream that doesn't really exist in the real world unless you start dealing coke or something like that. Building legitimately-acquired wealth takes time, and you WILL have to work your a$$ off in the first few years, but once your cashflow becomes self-sustaining it will all be worth it b/c then, and only then, you will be able to live life at your own pace and do what you want to do while everyone else is still punching the clock until age 65.
Originally posted by sifer
If you buy smart, you can get immediate cash on closing and positive cashflow on the first week you buy. And on your first property which will sustain itself for the rest of your life if you take care of your tenants.
I agree with you Page.Originally posted by Page
If he manages to do that on all of his properties , and assuming he always buys a property each year, he *could* possibly get financial freedom in 3.5 years, depending on how much money he needs. Financial freedom is relative; the ammount needed to be financially free varies from person to person.
To me, financial freedom is the situation where my monthly asset-derived income exceeds my monthly base expenses, and therefore leaves me with perpetually increasing positive cashflow every month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.