"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I want fat girls

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Thick chicks are hot..
Kim Kardashian, The chick from american idol who sings "behind these hazel eyes", Toccara the plus sized model to name a few who i'd bang ..

I like thick girls too.. I think thin girls are kinda gross .. I like a big butt and some big country titties.. Nothing wrong with that..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HolyTrinity said:
to me, fat girls are just better for goin out with. they like to eat, they will take care of you. im not saying obese im talkin bout like kinda thicker with huge boobs. :up:

who else loves fat girls?
You have your prefernce, nothing wrong with thick as long as it's still tight, knamean?


cola said:
Thick chicks are hot..
Kim Kardashian, The chick from american idol who sings "behind these hazel eyes", Toccara the plus sized model to name a few who i'd bang ..

I like thick girls too.. I think thin girls are kinda gross .. I like a big butt and some big country titties.. Nothing wrong with that..

I think Kim is thick in the right places, which makes her more curvy, to me

But everyone's defintion is different......
 

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I'm a social dancer so thick does not work for me .. can't move them around easily

I love thin girls I can put my arm completely around and pull in close

also they tend to be a lot better in bed - the one big girl I had many years ago was hard on sex and the ego

I was pumping away and she asked seriously "is it in yet ?" I lost a few inches on that comment.

You lose 6 inches on the blubber before you can even get in
 

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None for me thanks.
But a good friend of mine once told me a little of pearl of wisdom that goes like this:

"fat girls are like mopeds. They are fun to ride but you don't want your friends to know you have one."

If its what your truelly after than go for it. The only thing is that in my more severe AFC days, I found that I was more sexually attractive to larger woman than I ever could be now. But only because I saw them more obtainable then skinny girls, which triggered sexual tension.
 

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I have a buddy who is the exact same way, and when he tried to explain it he used the same logic as you. More sex driven, know how to take care of their men, love food etc..

But that still doesn't stop us from making fun of him.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Haha that website in the 1st link means serious ass business
 

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Warrior74 said:
nice examples
thick is 1st on my list followed by skinny
my definition of
Thick : slim waist, wide hips, thick thighs, fat a$$.

what i've seen are former thick chicks who've gained weight still using that word to describe themselves
and people using the word skinny to describe a petite woman.
 

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talking to fat girls is a good way to practice how to talk and build confidence in getting the super model type girls.

i dont really have many close friends so i gues this is good because then no one i know really judges me and makes fun of me or whatever. :rock:
 

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HolyTrinity said:
talking to fat girls is a good way to practice how to talk and build confidence in getting the super model type girls.

i dont really have many close friends so i gues this is good because then no one i know really judges me and makes fun of me or whatever. :rock:
You're changing your story. You want the fatties or would you rather the super models?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HolyTrinity said:
to me, fat girls are just better for goin out with. they like to eat, they will take care of you. im not saying obese im talkin bout like kinda thicker with huge boobs. :up:

who else loves fat girls?
As a matter of fact I do... I dated this girl, and she actually gives good sex, albeit I was captivated by her eyes, lips, and skin tone. It wasn't bad, plus her Momma would let me stay the night so it was sex all day and fat girls can work it too, she rode my d!ck like a champ.

http://s897.photobucket.com/albums/ac173/str8mackin2322/?action=view&current=lolxxx2222.jpg

http://s897.photobucket.com/albums/ac173/str8mackin2322/?action=view&current=lol.jpg

It's the blonde one mind you. haha. :up:
 

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JCballin88 said:
I put a big emphasis on staying in shape, and I lose respect for girls that don't respect their body. Fat=turnoff
Same here. It's just a huge turnoff when girls' arms are bigger than mine. I call it "smuggling hams" because when they have sleeves their arms fill them up and it looks like they're smuggling a ham underneath their shirt lol. Same with the stomach. Basically I like the thin, sometimes petite, big boobed, tight ass, physically fit. Not bodybuilder big, but fit and toned--like a good stripper, gymnast, or fitness model.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In some countries in Africa, men prefer fatter women, and the fatter, the sexier.

This is a true thing, and just goes to show that society plays a large role in determining what you think is your own preference.
 

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Solomon said:
My question to Warrior, Cola, Pimp and the rest of the guys on this thread....

http://www.0x28.net/pict/101784_85_2.jpg
^^is this chick "thick" to you or "fat"

Some people think she is fat, some think she is thick, personally I think she is thick but that's me
Fat. Those hips, and I bet her ass, are HUGE.
 

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scrouds said:
Rolls = Fat.
If they don't have rolls, they are just thick.
Hmm... that's a good rule of thumb.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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