"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want a job where I meet girls

Huffman

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Seriously guys, I want a job where I'm naturally exposed to a lot of girls.

If I look back:
- School: girls all around, see them every day
- Univeristy/dorm: lots of girls, lots of social events where you just meet them
- Work at the office: loads of money, zero girls.

Now that I look back, most of my lays came from being naturally exposed to a girl, and then deciding to do some cool stuff, and all goes natural from there.

Today, my only chance is to go out to bars and clubs. And I'm not big into night game, it's a lot of effort. I work all day, and go to the gym at night. Meeting women has become such a CHORE and I know it shouldn't be.

So, know any such jobs? I'm a software engineer, but IT office jobs are killing me.

P.S: Don't live in the US, so I can date coworkers no problem.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I want a job where I'm naturally exposed to a lot of girls.

Realistically, all the ones I can think of are pretty crappy jobs. You might instead try hobbies that expose you to women.
 

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Sounds like a bartender to me man.
 

BMX

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crossfit trainer
 

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world class photographer?

Hypnotist?

agent for writers (90% of that industry is chicks)

movie producer (even small time won't cost you much)

yoga instructor

cooking instructor

I agree with Bible Belt. Choose hobbies instead. Working with a bunch of women positively SUCKS. You'll hate it quick.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Huffman

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Haha you're right. Hobbies it is then... let's see if I can get into one of them university dancing classes ;)
 

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You should hire on for the pole polisher job at your local flop joint. Lots of girls there.
 

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if you're planning on staying on as a software engineer then your options are pretty much zero.

Are you good at anything else?
 

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software engineer.. yeah that was a great choice of profession to meet lots of hot girls
 

Huffman

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Touché ;)

Easy money though! I'll try working part-time and picking up more hobbies in that free time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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do what a good looking built cousin of mine in Europe did.. he's an engineer making mad dollars for a big company, but on his weekends he actually got jobs working at the best clubs in Monaco, where he'd bang hot wealthy women all the time.

Do you think you would want to try this?
 

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Im a manager at a gas station and i meet tones of women daily plus i see most them regularly
 

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karate instructor. It's like being lead singer in a good band, man. :) And you need the training anyway. Double whammy good for you . Figure on it taking a year and costing $5000, tho. $20 an hour or more, 3 or more hours per week, no more than 4 people per class, or all you will learn is bad habits. Figure on doing the stretching, muscle building OUT of class, and later, AFTER you understand form, kick the bag a lot out of class. Once you are Red belt, you can one step spar out of class, ditto perform kata. that will speed things up, the first few months, until you can free spar, are boring and difficult, but then the adrenalin of sparring is GREAT, man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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cosmetics demonstrator
hair stylist
hair washer
manicurist
pedicurist
gynecologist
obstetrician
pediatrician
abortion clinic receptionist
welfare social worker
preschool office worker
cell phone cover (etc. plastic junk) salesman at mall kiosk
salad bar attendant
baby/child photographer
nutritionist/dietician/weight loss studio help
shampoo ("beauty") store cashier
women's shoe salesman
wedding planner
jewelry salesman





...and





wait for it...





divorce attorney
 

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work at a blood plasma center, 4000 people a week donate plasma at my local one, over half are women. most of the workers are women, too.
 

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Bartending part time and working at some trendy clothing store part time are good. Minimal investment for maximum reward.

Bartending at a gay club will score you big time.
 

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I want a job period -_-
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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