"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I want a job where I meet girls

Huffman

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Seriously guys, I want a job where I'm naturally exposed to a lot of girls.

If I look back:
- School: girls all around, see them every day
- Univeristy/dorm: lots of girls, lots of social events where you just meet them
- Work at the office: loads of money, zero girls.

Now that I look back, most of my lays came from being naturally exposed to a girl, and then deciding to do some cool stuff, and all goes natural from there.

Today, my only chance is to go out to bars and clubs. And I'm not big into night game, it's a lot of effort. I work all day, and go to the gym at night. Meeting women has become such a CHORE and I know it shouldn't be.

So, know any such jobs? I'm a software engineer, but IT office jobs are killing me.

P.S: Don't live in the US, so I can date coworkers no problem.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bible_Belt

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I want a job where I'm naturally exposed to a lot of girls.

Realistically, all the ones I can think of are pretty crappy jobs. You might instead try hobbies that expose you to women.
 

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Sounds like a bartender to me man.
 

BMX

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crossfit trainer
 

taiyuu_otoko

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world class photographer?

Hypnotist?

agent for writers (90% of that industry is chicks)

movie producer (even small time won't cost you much)

yoga instructor

cooking instructor

I agree with Bible Belt. Choose hobbies instead. Working with a bunch of women positively SUCKS. You'll hate it quick.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Huffman

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Haha you're right. Hobbies it is then... let's see if I can get into one of them university dancing classes ;)
 

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You should hire on for the pole polisher job at your local flop joint. Lots of girls there.
 

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if you're planning on staying on as a software engineer then your options are pretty much zero.

Are you good at anything else?
 

sarcastic sam

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software engineer.. yeah that was a great choice of profession to meet lots of hot girls
 

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Touché ;)

Easy money though! I'll try working part-time and picking up more hobbies in that free time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do what a good looking built cousin of mine in Europe did.. he's an engineer making mad dollars for a big company, but on his weekends he actually got jobs working at the best clubs in Monaco, where he'd bang hot wealthy women all the time.

Do you think you would want to try this?
 

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Im a manager at a gas station and i meet tones of women daily plus i see most them regularly
 

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karate instructor. It's like being lead singer in a good band, man. :) And you need the training anyway. Double whammy good for you . Figure on it taking a year and costing $5000, tho. $20 an hour or more, 3 or more hours per week, no more than 4 people per class, or all you will learn is bad habits. Figure on doing the stretching, muscle building OUT of class, and later, AFTER you understand form, kick the bag a lot out of class. Once you are Red belt, you can one step spar out of class, ditto perform kata. that will speed things up, the first few months, until you can free spar, are boring and difficult, but then the adrenalin of sparring is GREAT, man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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cosmetics demonstrator
hair stylist
hair washer
manicurist
pedicurist
gynecologist
obstetrician
pediatrician
abortion clinic receptionist
welfare social worker
preschool office worker
cell phone cover (etc. plastic junk) salesman at mall kiosk
salad bar attendant
baby/child photographer
nutritionist/dietician/weight loss studio help
shampoo ("beauty") store cashier
women's shoe salesman
wedding planner
jewelry salesman





...and





wait for it...





divorce attorney
 

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work at a blood plasma center, 4000 people a week donate plasma at my local one, over half are women. most of the workers are women, too.
 

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Bartending part time and working at some trendy clothing store part time are good. Minimal investment for maximum reward.

Bartending at a gay club will score you big time.
 

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I want a job period -_-
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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