"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I want a better body

Want2Improve

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Hey everyone, I just joined the community and this will be my first post. I am tired of just having a decent body and I want to improve the body I have. I am just wondering what a good way to go about it would be and if anyone could give me some helpful advice. Here is my situation.
I am 5'10" and currently weigh 165 pounds. Since starting my current job at the end of March of '09, I have lost 40 pounds due to my job being physically demanding. I would guess that I walk at least 5 miles 4 days out of the week. Aside from walking, I also have to climb and lift. Over the year, I have gotten into much better shape but have now hit a plateau; my job will only get me so far. I now have a relatively flat stomach and athletic kind of body. I eat like a horse because my job has allowed me to.
What I am looking for is advice on a workout that would get rid of the rest of my stomach and develop abs as well as put on some muscle. I would also like advice on a good diet to go along with that workout. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ATP

Don Juan
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Hi there and good work with all that fat loss.

You can find most of the information in the stickies of this section of the forum.

Good luck.
 
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