"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I want a better body

Want2Improve

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Hey everyone, I just joined the community and this will be my first post. I am tired of just having a decent body and I want to improve the body I have. I am just wondering what a good way to go about it would be and if anyone could give me some helpful advice. Here is my situation.
I am 5'10" and currently weigh 165 pounds. Since starting my current job at the end of March of '09, I have lost 40 pounds due to my job being physically demanding. I would guess that I walk at least 5 miles 4 days out of the week. Aside from walking, I also have to climb and lift. Over the year, I have gotten into much better shape but have now hit a plateau; my job will only get me so far. I now have a relatively flat stomach and athletic kind of body. I eat like a horse because my job has allowed me to.
What I am looking for is advice on a workout that would get rid of the rest of my stomach and develop abs as well as put on some muscle. I would also like advice on a good diet to go along with that workout. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hi there and good work with all that fat loss.

You can find most of the information in the stickies of this section of the forum.

Good luck.
 
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