"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I want a 6-pack

Maxtro

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As the title says I want a 6-pack. Hopefully by August if possible.

Currently I'm 5'6, 146 lbs, hand-held body fat analyzer says I'm at 13% BF. I know I need to lower my BF % to see my abs. The problem is that I'm stuck at 146 since February. Last August 2007, I was 158 so I've managed to loose 12 lbs.

I've been working out about 3 times a week since August and I've gotten stronger and more defined since then. But I can't get rid of my gut :(

When ever I'm at the gym I do about 30 minutes of elliptical at the end of my work out. On my off days I play DDR in work out mode for 30-40 minutes straight.

I don't eat that much nor do I eat often. After each meal I'm still a little hungry.

So what do I do next? Any tips?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Abs aren't made in the gym, there made in the kitchen.

Why aren't you eating? Starving yourself will not reveal the six pack!!!

What are you eating? How long are you working out?

Again WHAT are you eating? The diet is 90% of the battle my friend
 

Maxtro

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ProDJ26 said:
Abs aren't made in the gym, there made in the kitchen.
I have heard that saying many times. Thats why I didn't post anything about an ab routine since I'm not doing any :p

My diet

Breakfast: One of the fallowing
Bowl of cereal, most common but I'm trying to eat high fiber low sugar kinds
Oatmeal
Eggs
Pancakes
French Toast

Lunch: One of
Peanut butter and Jelly sandwich
Ham and cheese
Grilled cheese
Quesadilla
Burrito
Protein shake if it's after a work out

Dinner: Usually it's what ever my Cuban grandmother cooks and a bowl of lettuce. Cuban food is really bland so I don't fill myself up. Also I want to loose weight not gain.

Rice and beans
Rice and chicken
Some pasta thing
Some pasta thing with chicken

During the day I drink a lot of water. With meals it's mostly apple juice and some times chocolate milk.

I'm not starving myself but I don't know if I'm eating, too much, too little or just enough.

I usually do 30-40 minutes of free weights. Alternating different body parts on different days. I then do about 20-30 minutes of cardio at the end.
 

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how do you expect to make abs when you don't do any ab exercises...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cry For Love

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Hey Maxtro, what do you need the 6-pack for anyway? I understand the fun of getting stronger and a higher endurance, but the 6-pack craze seems a bit over the top. There is no need to get body fat that low unless youre a top athlete.
 

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Ab exercises are very important. Get on a strength training routine (Rippetoes or Stronglifts), and do extra ab work (vary the exercises). The more muscle you gain, the more calories will burn.

Look at Strongmen. Some are at 15% bodyfat and they still have a 6 pack, because they are so strong.
 

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Cry For Love said:
Hey Maxtro, what do you need the 6-pack for anyway? I understand the fun of getting stronger and a higher endurance, but the 6-pack craze seems a bit over the top. There is no need to get body fat that low unless youre a top athlete.
I don't need a 6-pack but I will still like one. I like the way they look and I think it would look good on me :D Looking in the mirror and seeing that I look good will definitely give a boost to my self confidence. Plus I'm tired of having a belly.

Also I'm going to be moving to SoCal in a couple of months and I'm probably going to go to the beach quite often. I don't want to be the guy with the gut.

I've done a bit of research and I realized that I basically need to completely change my diet.

I thought that eating less was good enough. Turns out it's not.
 

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What do you guys think of uneven abs?

As in they are not symmetrical on both sides and vary in size in the different sections.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yungahdubz said:
As in they are not symmetrical on both sides and vary in size in the different sections.
it's almost always genetic. but knock yourself out trying to 'fix' it.

"abs are made in the kitchen" is a lovely aphorism, and obviously wrong.

abs are made with ab exercises. abs are REVEALED with proper attention to diet. the distinction is not academic, you need to be doing both.
 

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"abs are made in the kitchen" is a lovely aphorism, and obviously wrong.
Don't pick hairs Throttle ;) For anyone with a decent gym routine who's been going at it for awhile and still can't see his abs, it makes perfect sense.
 
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