"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I Wanna Pump It Up ...........

StoneCold

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GUYZ

I Have met a really hot sweet Girl from Brazil with a big ass.......

we escalate each other,s kino well....

I met her on a cold approach just going up to her.and saying my name we walked off togthere..........

we went out on a day 2 it was Great.....

she works throughout the week and i understand that we cant spend much time togthere...........

so we date every 10 days or closer and short dates at that but great ones....

The way that Im gaiming her is That i only contact her when i know she tells me that she has a day off and then we hook up.......

and thats like evey 10 days...........

so we go out...........no communication for 10 days then hook up agian.......

its just unreal and seem wacky.........

is it good to take things this slow........i know shes attracted to me.......

By waiting and taking things really slow is the interest level STILL high..........???

I dont wanna send her texts and give her any phones calls........i just text her tell her to meet me and shes always their........

we been out 3 times in a month and its my URGE to build this into a relationship by its driving me crazy when things are going so slow......

Respect
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zerocelcius

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Taking it slow is a great thing! Nice job so far!

You want to take it forward...Hmmm. Let me say it this way, and I hope it means something to you.

A man should never deny himself that which he desires, yet a man must first be sure of the principal of his desires.
 

SamePendo

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So you want to get into a relationship with a woman that isn't available, time wise that is. Check!

Have you kissed her yet? Use that interest that you are telling us that she is feeling to, to escalate sexual-wise, like... getting sex.
 

Phyzzle

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There's nothing you can do but what you're doing now. Escalating the relationship is the woman's job.
 
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