"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Wanna Pump It Up ...........

StoneCold

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GUYZ

I Have met a really hot sweet Girl from Brazil with a big ass.......

we escalate each other,s kino well....

I met her on a cold approach just going up to her.and saying my name we walked off togthere..........

we went out on a day 2 it was Great.....

she works throughout the week and i understand that we cant spend much time togthere...........

so we date every 10 days or closer and short dates at that but great ones....

The way that Im gaiming her is That i only contact her when i know she tells me that she has a day off and then we hook up.......

and thats like evey 10 days...........

so we go out...........no communication for 10 days then hook up agian.......

its just unreal and seem wacky.........

is it good to take things this slow........i know shes attracted to me.......

By waiting and taking things really slow is the interest level STILL high..........???

I dont wanna send her texts and give her any phones calls........i just text her tell her to meet me and shes always their........

we been out 3 times in a month and its my URGE to build this into a relationship by its driving me crazy when things are going so slow......

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zerocelcius

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Taking it slow is a great thing! Nice job so far!

You want to take it forward...Hmmm. Let me say it this way, and I hope it means something to you.

A man should never deny himself that which he desires, yet a man must first be sure of the principal of his desires.
 

SamePendo

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So you want to get into a relationship with a woman that isn't available, time wise that is. Check!

Have you kissed her yet? Use that interest that you are telling us that she is feeling to, to escalate sexual-wise, like... getting sex.
 

Phyzzle

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There's nothing you can do but what you're doing now. Escalating the relationship is the woman's job.
 
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