"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I Wanna Know Everything!!!

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Alright.. so the past two weekends were amazing. I got out of my comfrot zone alot and have even been scooping a few dames in the process. This one girl in particular, I was super AFC with her before and it lasted no longer then a month. Now shes away at school and ive been talking to her lately on MSN. She is throwing major,major attraction to me... and shes gonna be home in 2 weeks for the summer.

Just this recent change in my ways has proven to me that I wanna learn as much as I possibly can form this site and everybody here. Now, aside from the DJ Bible, can anybody give me their best tips and/or tricks or advice to set me on my path?

-Prestige-
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So pimp its scary

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Prestige... So you wanna know everything.

Let me give you an idea : 6 months of reading (website / various books related to seduction) + 3 months of mental preparation + 1000's of approaches + meeting various naturals... and I'm only starting to see the forest of information... let alone the finer details of everything.
 

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Read the book 'The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People', and honestly take it to heart because if you are willing to change entirely, you have to start with being honest with yourself.
 

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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So pimp its scary said:
6 months of reading (website / various books related to seduction) + 3 months of mental preparation + 1000's of approaches + meeting various naturals... and I'm only starting to see the forest of information... let alone the finer details of everything.
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EXACTLY.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So pimp its scary

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I'm gonna quote Rolling Stones too :
"No, You can't always get what you want!
And if you try sometimes you find
you get what you need."

What this means is that the average person WANTS to be a DJ, so they learn what they can... then they get the skill that they need to carry on to the more important things in their lives.

Another example is you might want to make a million dollars, but despite all your efforts you make a hundred grand... it's not what you wanted, but it's what you needed.

And, BTW... that last spiel was about accurate to the point where I would consider myself about average at picking up chicks.
 

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don't fall into the studyitis trap. Reading will only take your learning curve so far. Get as much field experience as you can, and test things out as you go along
 
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