"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I Wanna Know Everything!!!

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Alright.. so the past two weekends were amazing. I got out of my comfrot zone alot and have even been scooping a few dames in the process. This one girl in particular, I was super AFC with her before and it lasted no longer then a month. Now shes away at school and ive been talking to her lately on MSN. She is throwing major,major attraction to me... and shes gonna be home in 2 weeks for the summer.

Just this recent change in my ways has proven to me that I wanna learn as much as I possibly can form this site and everybody here. Now, aside from the DJ Bible, can anybody give me their best tips and/or tricks or advice to set me on my path?

-Prestige-
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Prestige... So you wanna know everything.

Let me give you an idea : 6 months of reading (website / various books related to seduction) + 3 months of mental preparation + 1000's of approaches + meeting various naturals... and I'm only starting to see the forest of information... let alone the finer details of everything.
 

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Read the book 'The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People', and honestly take it to heart because if you are willing to change entirely, you have to start with being honest with yourself.
 

THIAGO BRAZIL II

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So pimp its scary said:
6 months of reading (website / various books related to seduction) + 3 months of mental preparation + 1000's of approaches + meeting various naturals... and I'm only starting to see the forest of information... let alone the finer details of everything.
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EXACTLY.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So pimp its scary

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I'm gonna quote Rolling Stones too :
"No, You can't always get what you want!
And if you try sometimes you find
you get what you need."

What this means is that the average person WANTS to be a DJ, so they learn what they can... then they get the skill that they need to carry on to the more important things in their lives.

Another example is you might want to make a million dollars, but despite all your efforts you make a hundred grand... it's not what you wanted, but it's what you needed.

And, BTW... that last spiel was about accurate to the point where I would consider myself about average at picking up chicks.
 

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don't fall into the studyitis trap. Reading will only take your learning curve so far. Get as much field experience as you can, and test things out as you go along
 
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