"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i wanna be more appleaing to girl im dating (i met new girl and is better)

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shes better looking then her shes into wrestling (we gonna do the do this week hopfully) she is getting dinner for me. How can i tell the girl that isnt as good as this girl let her know I got someone better then her and she needs to step up?

(possiblly raise her attraction for me as well?)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be better appealing for yourself, you cannot do it for someone else, because the motivation is not right.

It's going to take some time. 3-6 months might get you some way along the track, but becoming more "attractive" in the various ways can be a journey that takes years.
 
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