"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i wanna be more appleaing to girl im dating (i met new girl and is better)

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shes better looking then her shes into wrestling (we gonna do the do this week hopfully) she is getting dinner for me. How can i tell the girl that isnt as good as this girl let her know I got someone better then her and she needs to step up?

(possiblly raise her attraction for me as well?)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Be better appealing for yourself, you cannot do it for someone else, because the motivation is not right.

It's going to take some time. 3-6 months might get you some way along the track, but becoming more "attractive" in the various ways can be a journey that takes years.
 
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