"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I walked away because she didnt want to say bye dady at phone

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Tonight i was on the phone with my girlfriend .

Everthing was fine and she knew i love her and i do anything for her but!

I say bye mom .. We say this on online conversations.. I know is stupid but..
I say at phone to and she dont want to say .. And i say if she change her mind leave me a message..

You know is not about that word!But ...I have my rules..

I feel that she is play mind games.. Why the fu** dont want to say a little sweet word for me?Is just a word...

In a relationship i expect everthing to be the some for both parteners..
I dont meet her yet !Just webcam and other...

Is good that i walk away?.... I dont feel good if is not 50/50 in a relationship from both ...
Is not yet real but... She say she love me..Maybe a lie..
So ...I want opinions:)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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teakroy said:
Tonight i was on the phone with my girlfriend .

Everthing was fine and she knew i love her and i do anything for her but!

I say bye mom .. We say this on online conversations.. I know is stupid but..
I say at phone to and she dont want to say .. And i say if she change her mind leave me a message..

You know is not about that word!But ...I have my rules..

I feel that she is play mind games.. Why the fu** dont want to say a little sweet word for me?Is just a word...

In a relationship i expect everthing to be the some for both parteners..
I dont meet her yet !Just webcam and other...

Is good that i walk away?.... I dont feel good i is not 50/50 in a relationship..
Is not yet real but... She say she love me..Maybe a lie..
So ...I want opinions:)

Bro........huh??? You want her to call you dad, and if she doesn't you get mad at her?
 

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No. Not a troll, just an AFC who's read about game and doesn't really understand it.

Firstly - you haven't even met her? She ain't no gf.
secondly- that dad thing is creepy and pathetic
thirdly- get off the internet and talk to some real girls.

you will not find a normal girl on the internet.
no svx?- not a gf
won't call you dad? You AIN'T HER DAD!

learn to crawl before you try to walk. Now off to bootcamp with you!

Nothing to see here. Move on.
 

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1. Why the hell are you having online conversations with your "girlfriend". Sounds like your giving her attention on the internet while a playa like A.J. (at least the summer version) is beating the brakes off her monkey.

2. It's petty as hell. Who cares?
 

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spiegel549 said:
Bro........huh??? You want her to call you dad, and if she doesn't you get mad at her?
I am not mad :)

I asked a little word :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why would you want your woman to call you Daddy? To me that's really disturbing.
 

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I just wanted to see if she do something for me ..If i offer everything..
 

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Nah I can understand her calling him daddy,chicks do this

But why the **** you calling her mom bro

And why you having online conversations she is going to lose interest with you cause you wasting time talking to her

You only have phone convos to plan something not little highschool kids convos
 

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teakroy said:
I just wanted to see if she do something for me ..If i offer everything..
That is not what is taught here #niceguy#beta#AFC
 

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Fatal Jay said:
Nah I can understand her calling him daddy,chicks do this

But why the **** you calling her mom bro

And why you having online conversations she is going to lose interest with you cause you wasting time talking to her

You only have phone convos to plan something not little highschool kids convos
Because first of all she is not in the country ..

I know i break the rules.. Because she say she wanted to say to her mom in text.. Anyway ..I will find something better to do that wasting my time ..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Purefilth said:
No. Not a troll, just an AFC who's read about game and doesn't really understand it.
Maybe it's just a cultural thing. The OP sounds like he's from the Asia Pacific rim..
 

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^^heh, rim ...... :)
 
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Dominance said:
I think the whole 'daddy' thing is weird. It originally come from pimps game and I never understood it.
It's proper weird! It seems very incestual to me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Of all the strange things I heard, two lovers calling themselves mom and dad is surely top 10 material.
 

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Spanish people call each other derivatives of that theme. With mami and papi. I know it doesn't mean mom and dad per say but they sound alike. I like it when spanish chicks call me papi.
 

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Mario is that you? Because it sure does sound like it.

1. You always talked about wanting females to call you daddy and even wanted the crew to say "bye daddy".

2. You have never met your "girlfriend" irl and do that webcam bs. Plus she lives in another country as you mentioned above. Peru to be exact.

3. You have a habit for attempting to troll websites and the OP's trolling style screams your name.

4. I'm gonna bust your game in front of everybody on this site since you hide in the house you never leave every time I come home from college.


Everybody, please refer to the thread I made about 4 months ago for your convenience.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196554



FYI- The guy I'm referring to is my ex best friend and is the epitome of an AFC.
 

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The OP is seeking compliance and is concerned that she is not cooperative and submissive.

It is important to obtain compliance, but this is the wrong subject to do it in.

She probably feels creeped out about saying that, and I can certainly understand that. In the United States that kind of thing is ultra-creepy, but it might not be where he's from.

However, that kind of thing only flies when you're on intimate terms with the lady, even if it is culturally acceptable. You need to fly in under the radar and get compliance in ways that are less open to interpretation. You need to keep her emotions out of the equation and you can really only do that in-person, not online.

Text kills.
 

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First of all. She started with this on text.

Second i called her back and i apologies.

After a while she finnaly pick up the phone ... Ok ..But anyway she leaved me and i leave her.

Because she was talking with another boy and i say with who you are talking ?And she say with nobody and dont wanted to make a print screen..So after i say ..I was honest with all I expected to be the same..
I dont really play games because i want to play simple things..

I dont care what people talk about me and i am proud of me in any case.
After that she leave and she say she will not enter again.
So all this was a lie:)Because she was fighthing with another boy on her computer and she was cry and ...I guessed that guy was her true love.. she negate all of this.. And she says she dont want to tell with who she is talking so..
So i stepped back. Why to stay with a girl that doesnt want to tell with she is speaking and leave me waiting hours for her .
Case closed .. I guess i struggle for nothing so many months.Experience is a good point..

Is only my fault i put with her games from the start...Many lies and many disrespect games...I expected for her to change but ... I was damn wrong..
She won't admit it was wrong so i guess all words that i will say to her dont matter .:down:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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