"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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I walked away because she didnt want to say bye dady at phone

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Tonight i was on the phone with my girlfriend .

Everthing was fine and she knew i love her and i do anything for her but!

I say bye mom .. We say this on online conversations.. I know is stupid but..
I say at phone to and she dont want to say .. And i say if she change her mind leave me a message..

You know is not about that word!But ...I have my rules..

I feel that she is play mind games.. Why the fu** dont want to say a little sweet word for me?Is just a word...

In a relationship i expect everthing to be the some for both parteners..
I dont meet her yet !Just webcam and other...

Is good that i walk away?.... I dont feel good if is not 50/50 in a relationship from both ...
Is not yet real but... She say she love me..Maybe a lie..
So ...I want opinions:)
 

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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teakroy said:
Tonight i was on the phone with my girlfriend .

Everthing was fine and she knew i love her and i do anything for her but!

I say bye mom .. We say this on online conversations.. I know is stupid but..
I say at phone to and she dont want to say .. And i say if she change her mind leave me a message..

You know is not about that word!But ...I have my rules..

I feel that she is play mind games.. Why the fu** dont want to say a little sweet word for me?Is just a word...

In a relationship i expect everthing to be the some for both parteners..
I dont meet her yet !Just webcam and other...

Is good that i walk away?.... I dont feel good i is not 50/50 in a relationship..
Is not yet real but... She say she love me..Maybe a lie..
So ...I want opinions:)

Bro........huh??? You want her to call you dad, and if she doesn't you get mad at her?
 

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No. Not a troll, just an AFC who's read about game and doesn't really understand it.

Firstly - you haven't even met her? She ain't no gf.
secondly- that dad thing is creepy and pathetic
thirdly- get off the internet and talk to some real girls.

you will not find a normal girl on the internet.
no svx?- not a gf
won't call you dad? You AIN'T HER DAD!

learn to crawl before you try to walk. Now off to bootcamp with you!

Nothing to see here. Move on.
 

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1. Why the hell are you having online conversations with your "girlfriend". Sounds like your giving her attention on the internet while a playa like A.J. (at least the summer version) is beating the brakes off her monkey.

2. It's petty as hell. Who cares?
 

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spiegel549 said:
Bro........huh??? You want her to call you dad, and if she doesn't you get mad at her?
I am not mad :)

I asked a little word :)
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Why would you want your woman to call you Daddy? To me that's really disturbing.
 

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I just wanted to see if she do something for me ..If i offer everything..
 

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Nah I can understand her calling him daddy,chicks do this

But why the **** you calling her mom bro

And why you having online conversations she is going to lose interest with you cause you wasting time talking to her

You only have phone convos to plan something not little highschool kids convos
 

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teakroy said:
I just wanted to see if she do something for me ..If i offer everything..
That is not what is taught here #niceguy#beta#AFC
 

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Fatal Jay said:
Nah I can understand her calling him daddy,chicks do this

But why the **** you calling her mom bro

And why you having online conversations she is going to lose interest with you cause you wasting time talking to her

You only have phone convos to plan something not little highschool kids convos
Because first of all she is not in the country ..

I know i break the rules.. Because she say she wanted to say to her mom in text.. Anyway ..I will find something better to do that wasting my time ..
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Purefilth said:
No. Not a troll, just an AFC who's read about game and doesn't really understand it.
Maybe it's just a cultural thing. The OP sounds like he's from the Asia Pacific rim..
 

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^^heh, rim ...... :)
 
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Dominance said:
I think the whole 'daddy' thing is weird. It originally come from pimps game and I never understood it.
It's proper weird! It seems very incestual to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Of all the strange things I heard, two lovers calling themselves mom and dad is surely top 10 material.
 

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Spanish people call each other derivatives of that theme. With mami and papi. I know it doesn't mean mom and dad per say but they sound alike. I like it when spanish chicks call me papi.
 

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Mario is that you? Because it sure does sound like it.

1. You always talked about wanting females to call you daddy and even wanted the crew to say "bye daddy".

2. You have never met your "girlfriend" irl and do that webcam bs. Plus she lives in another country as you mentioned above. Peru to be exact.

3. You have a habit for attempting to troll websites and the OP's trolling style screams your name.

4. I'm gonna bust your game in front of everybody on this site since you hide in the house you never leave every time I come home from college.


Everybody, please refer to the thread I made about 4 months ago for your convenience.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=196554



FYI- The guy I'm referring to is my ex best friend and is the epitome of an AFC.
 

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The OP is seeking compliance and is concerned that she is not cooperative and submissive.

It is important to obtain compliance, but this is the wrong subject to do it in.

She probably feels creeped out about saying that, and I can certainly understand that. In the United States that kind of thing is ultra-creepy, but it might not be where he's from.

However, that kind of thing only flies when you're on intimate terms with the lady, even if it is culturally acceptable. You need to fly in under the radar and get compliance in ways that are less open to interpretation. You need to keep her emotions out of the equation and you can really only do that in-person, not online.

Text kills.
 

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First of all. She started with this on text.

Second i called her back and i apologies.

After a while she finnaly pick up the phone ... Ok ..But anyway she leaved me and i leave her.

Because she was talking with another boy and i say with who you are talking ?And she say with nobody and dont wanted to make a print screen..So after i say ..I was honest with all I expected to be the same..
I dont really play games because i want to play simple things..

I dont care what people talk about me and i am proud of me in any case.
After that she leave and she say she will not enter again.
So all this was a lie:)Because she was fighthing with another boy on her computer and she was cry and ...I guessed that guy was her true love.. she negate all of this.. And she says she dont want to tell with who she is talking so..
So i stepped back. Why to stay with a girl that doesnt want to tell with she is speaking and leave me waiting hours for her .
Case closed .. I guess i struggle for nothing so many months.Experience is a good point..

Is only my fault i put with her games from the start...Many lies and many disrespect games...I expected for her to change but ... I was damn wrong..
She won't admit it was wrong so i guess all words that i will say to her dont matter .:down:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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