“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I used to have game but now I have no skills, help me out.

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Nissanguy

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I'm 19 now and I think I have lost my skills with women.
Back when I was 16-17 I really had no trouble getting girls, it was strange, I really didnt even have to try and girls would find me, but now that I'm a few years older I dont have any of the confidence with girls I used to have and I really cant seem to get anywhere with girls. I just dont understand it I'm still doing things the way I used to and it just doesent work anymore.
What the hell happend? I ask myself this a lot and I really dont have an answer. Now I have always been a shy quiet guy and I largely keep to myself but I had no probs. getting numbers and dates before.
Has anyone on here been through somthing similar? Please give me some tips to get me back on the right road with girls.
Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Like everything else in life, if you don't repeat what you're doing, you're going to lose sight of it. So my suggestion to you: Go back review the DonJuan materials even though you think you 'got it' and also seek out new info such as David D's advanced dating system and etc. very useful/powerful
 

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Did you lose social proof? It sounds to me like you may have been in high school before and been popular there, but then went to college and now lack the social proof you had before.

Social proof is very important to girls, especially when you are younger.

There are always a few guys who were sooooo cool in high school who end up going AFC and marrying a fatty at 22. There are also guys who didn't have any women in their teens who go on to date models. Rededicate yourself to the game and make sure you aren't like the first guy.
 
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