"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I used to have game but now I have no skills, help me out.

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I'm 19 now and I think I have lost my skills with women.
Back when I was 16-17 I really had no trouble getting girls, it was strange, I really didnt even have to try and girls would find me, but now that I'm a few years older I dont have any of the confidence with girls I used to have and I really cant seem to get anywhere with girls. I just dont understand it I'm still doing things the way I used to and it just doesent work anymore.
What the hell happend? I ask myself this a lot and I really dont have an answer. Now I have always been a shy quiet guy and I largely keep to myself but I had no probs. getting numbers and dates before.
Has anyone on here been through somthing similar? Please give me some tips to get me back on the right road with girls.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Like everything else in life, if you don't repeat what you're doing, you're going to lose sight of it. So my suggestion to you: Go back review the DonJuan materials even though you think you 'got it' and also seek out new info such as David D's advanced dating system and etc. very useful/powerful
 
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Did you lose social proof? It sounds to me like you may have been in high school before and been popular there, but then went to college and now lack the social proof you had before.

Social proof is very important to girls, especially when you are younger.

There are always a few guys who were sooooo cool in high school who end up going AFC and marrying a fatty at 22. There are also guys who didn't have any women in their teens who go on to date models. Rededicate yourself to the game and make sure you aren't like the first guy.
 
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