"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I used a compliment opener...

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And it worked. Yea, I heard how AFC complimenting is but it opened her up.

Me: Hi, how are you doing
Her: Kept walking ignoring me
Me: Alright just wanted to let you know I've been on vacation for about a week and you're by far the prettiest girl I've seen during my time here.
Her: That's so sweet
(We exchanged names and the conversation begins......)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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And...?

So you talked to a girl? Congratulations....:eek:
 

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some say you can only open up nines and above with negs. or what not. i once opened a nine by saying, "i think you are so... beautiful" and it worked. like david d preaches, anything will work as long as you say it the right way
 

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
And...?

So you talked to a girl? Congratulations....:eek:
Why do you have to be a jack-ass man?

I just heard often not to use compliment openers and it worked. So I'm kinda confused as to y the DJ bible says not too.
 

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Originally posted by john_1234
some say you can only open up nines and above with negs. or what not. i once opened a nine by saying, "i think you are so... beautiful" and it worked. like david d preaches, anything will work as long as you say it the right way
Ok, so nines and above open w/ neg hits? And anything below compliment openers?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i serously think alot of people on here are childish and feel they need to act like jack-ass to there fellow don juan brothers...we shouldn't be talking to each other like were talking to a girl,



b*tches do that

but yea good job on the opener --- seriously!

theres nothing wrong with being a nice guy because...

if you wanna get laid FVck a Slut and be a jackA**

but if you want a GF then be a nice Guy

plus i noticed girls re-act different to a guy who uses different words to pick them up

your pretty---your Hot

Hey how are you--how you DoiN??

Hey, wait up what's your name?-- A BABY come ova hea whats Ya name??

think i could have your number? -- Hey baby lemme get them digits

same meaning big difference
 

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
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i serously think alot of people on here are childish and feel they need to act like jack-ass to there fellow don juan brothers...we shouldn't be talking to each other like were talking to a girl,



b*tches do that

but yea good job on the opener --- seriously!

theres nothing wrong with being a nice guy because...

if you wanna get laid FVck a Slut and be a jackA**

but if you want a GF then be a nice Guy
lol, tnx I'll keep that one in mind
 

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
i serously think alot of people on here are childish and feel they need to act like jack-ass to there fellow don juan brothers...we shouldn't be talking to each other like were talking to a girl,



b*tches do that

but yea good job on the opener --- seriously!

theres nothing wrong with being a nice guy because...

if you wanna get laid FVck a Slut and be a jackA**

but if you want a GF then be a nice Guy

plus i noticed girls re-act different to a guy who uses different words to pick them up

your pretty---your Hot

Hey how are you--how you DoiN??

Hey, wait up what's your name?-- A BABY come ova hea whats Ya name??

think i could have your number? -- Hey baby lemme get them digits

same meaning big difference
What's the difference you get from either of those different ways of saying things? I'm curious.
 

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As long as you say it out of confidence you can open with anything.

I opend a HB9 with........

Me: "Your hot we should get married"

Bla Bla Bla!!!

She was my gf for about 4 months.

Just goes to show you can say anything.
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Why do you have to be a jack-ass man?

I just heard often not to use compliment openers and it worked. So I'm kinda confused as to y the DJ bible says not too.
You didn't say anything.

So you said something to her, and you had a conversation. So what's so good about it?

Tell us more. Did you get her number, did you have sex with her...what was so good about this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
You didn't say anything.

So you said something to her, and you had a conversation. So what's so good about it?

Tell us more. Did you get her number, did you have sex with her...what was so good about this?
Do you happen to have any field reports buddy?
 

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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
Do you happen to have any field reports buddy?
Actually DakidS3 has a point. You said your compliment opener "worked". In sarging, when something "worked" it means you got her # or fclose her. If it only got a conversation with her, then you didn't really succeed.

Even getting a girl's # isn't much of a success since girls flake so much these days.
 

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yes! a number close. That's what 'it worked' means. I had a good convo w/ her afterward exchanged cell #.
 
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