I try not be a Simp(AFC), but this is hard.

[WeakMenNeverRise]

This is kind of a long story but i'll try and make it as short as possible. Theres this chick that I had a huge crush on in high school. Back then i was on a serious AFC tip so I never said anything. I recently met up with her(6 years later) and as we reminisced it turned out that she had a crush on me too back in HS. We had a great convo and I week later, I went to her apartment after work. Now one thing I have to mention is that she does have a boyfriend. Anyway, I went to her apartment and we had another great convo, i was applying that steady mack. We even made plans to hang out on her spring break. When I was leaving, she walked me to the door, out to the porch, and then out to my car. I knew that that meant she wanted to kiss me goodbye. At the car we had that akward kiss moment and she put her hand over her mouth, kinda teasing me. Then i kissed my fingers, put them on her cheek, and said next time and then proceeded to leave. The messed up part is that its been 3 weeks and I haven't talked to her since. I left her 2 messages and she never returned them. I was really feeling this girl and I have to admit that this is bothering me. That said, should I call her back in case there may be a legitamte reason that she didn't call back or should I just leave it alone and just accept this one as a loss.

 

[frivolousz21]

you need to start playing baseball with your women.

have a superstar

then a lineup

then a bullpin

ur not married!

go get 4 or 5 numbers talk to all of them..and then you will see how it feels with excess and you wont give 2 ****s about this one girl.

do this until you meet someone u really care for that has HIGH IL

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Leave it alone bro...I'd 'soft' next her...

She may very well be highly interested in you...but...she may also feel genuinely guilty about going out with you because she has a bf. I'd let it go for now. Don't give her any more emails...If she really wanted to be with you..she would have replied to your emails already. Don't make excuses for her reasons not emailing you. She didn't...and if you keep emailing her..you'll come off as a needy simp.

It looks like she just wanted the attention. She has a bf (which is her safety net)...yet, she has guys like you around to keep her feeling desired.

Pull away...I'm sure as soon as her bf f*cks up or she feels not so sexxy..she'll give you a call. Classic attention wh*re. If you want to just have sex with her..its pretty easy to take her away from her bf...there are tons of threads on that subject..just do a simple search...personally, thats not my style...but hey..who's here to discuss morals? not me..

Leave her alone for now...soft next her and dont be clingy or sappy. Stop making excuses for her low interest level and go out and find some other quality women. She'll come around again when you least expect it..they always do.

 

[doctoroxygen]

Originally posted by WeakMenNeverRise
This is kind of a long story but i'll try and make it as short as possible. Theres this chick that I had a huge crush on in high school. Back then i was on a serious AFC tip so I never said anything. I recently met up with her(6 years later) and as we reminisced it turned out that she had a crush on me too back in HS. We had a great convo and I week later, I went to her apartment after work. Now one thing I have to mention is that she does have a boyfriend. Anyway, I went to her apartment and we had another great convo, i was applying that steady mack. We even made plans to hang out on her spring break. When I was leaving, she walked me to the door, out to the porch, and then out to my car. I knew that that meant she wanted to kiss me goodbye. At the car we had that akward kiss moment and she put her hand over her mouth, kinda teasing me. Then i kissed my fingers, put them on her cheek, and said next time and then proceeded to leave. The messed up part is that its been 3 weeks and I haven't talked to her since. I left her 2 messages and she never returned them. I was really feeling this girl and I have to admit that this is bothering me. That said, should I call her back in case there may be a legitamte reason that she didn't call back or should I just leave it alone and just accept this one as a loss.

She wanted it and you didn't escalate...sorry dude, I know this sucks, but you probably lost your chance. This has happened to me so many times...never again!