"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I TRIGGERED a chick when talking about normalisation of female obesity

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Long post, but I thought this conversation I had today on Reddit was rather amusing, a neat window into the mind of the man-hating Femin*zi and their total lack of logical faculties. Note how once I make some valid points, the mindless personal insults start.

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Me: What I find really irks me is when girls say "I'm naturally big." when they eat 4000 calories a day and do no exercise. That's not natural weight, it's obesity!

The massive hypocrisy is that the same unnaturally obese girls will reject any guy that isn't 6'4"+ and ripped to shreds at the same time, something which requires that man to do 2 hours in the gym every day and eat perfectly.

I had to work my socks off to stop being an obese male, I wouldn't dream of saying "Ha, I'm just naturally a slob so you have to find me attractive."

Reply: That's not hypocrisy. Honestly, as long as they aren't shaming anyone or being assh*les about it, I see no reason why they can't reject who they want. And the same goes for ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks. I think it's far better than them settling for someone they're not physically attracted to. And some people would just rather be alone than settle.

Me: It's not the rejection that's hypocritical, it's the entitlement.

"I'm entitled to a man who's a ripped gym buff, but meanwhile men should find me physically attractive for my "natural" state of making myself obese."

If an obese man told women they should find him attractive because he's naturally lazy and eats lots, he would in all seriousness probably die a virgin if he stuck with that attitude.

(Here comes the good bit)

Reply: If you bothered to read my comment instead of kneejerking you'd realize I said "the same goes for ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks".

Me:
Jeez. Umad? I did "bother" to read your comment!

The key difference is that ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks don't get to date hot chicks! Instead they either shape up at the gym or become loners. At best they date a girl far less desirable than what they originally unrealistically wanted.

Whereas I know about 10 obese girls in person that f*ck lean, gym-going guys whenever they fancy. Because society is working hard to normalise their lack of exercise or nutritional discipline for some bizarre reason, and men are comparatively desperate.

Reply: So you're just envious that women can **** hotter people than you can. That's kinda what I assumed. Carry on.

(LOL. TRIGGERED)

Me: When did this become about me? I'm certainly not an obese male (quite the opposite actually lol), but I appreciate your tasteless ad hominem there, thank you :)

Apparently you failed at reading skills (how ironic given your previous rude comment), because I never said anything that would suggest any degree of envy at all. I was merely pointing out how ridiculous it is that fat men are considered "ugly" (to use your term actually) by girls, but self-imposed obesity in girls? That's "natural". Men should find it attractive, apparently.

I guess I must have touched a nerve because you're clearly not able to discuss this in a civil or polite fashion without the most pathetic personal attacks. Carry on.

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Checkmate, but jeez. These people are just...nuts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, done. This is why I don't debate on the internet, people are cretins...lol.
 

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Yeah you gotta know how to argue. Don’t explain your points with logic, just SAY what your point with FEELINGS. That’s it really.
 

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Never communicate with a woman about excessive weight. It’s her greatest fear if she’s currently in the market or thinking about it. Whether it’s about her or not, It’s a cardinal communicatuon dating sin, and regardless of your word content, she will think it’s all about her…
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is due to the natural instinct of women to be hypergamous, and the natural instinct of men to stick it into anything with a heart and a hole. Fat women can be aggressive and get a decent-looking men to hit it.
 

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In order to argue with someone it takes oth of you to be able to evaluate points and arguments from a logical point of view, basically living in reality.

Women lack this, its not that they mess it all in order not to accept your points, they simply cant segregate emotions from evaluations.

Arguing with most women is like trying to measure weight with a rule, no wonder they fail to understand and think instead that you're doing something wrong.

Example: kid throws a rock and breaks a window.

Man: thinks the kid should be punished for his action wheter he is crying or not, what he does now doesnt change the fact and the damage.

Woman: thinks crying corrects the wrong done from the kid cause it shows that he is now a good kid and good kids dont get punished...she thinks the owner of the windows asking reparation is actually the one who should apologize for making the kid cry.
 

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A few fat chicks were getting banged out by decent looking dudes back in the day because they had huge breasts. Now that fat "asses" are in demand, due to the likes of the Kardashians, some dudes will bang these bishes out, just for that ass, even she comes with extra pounds in the mid section. Fat chicks use this to their advantage. As long as they have some meat in the behind, they think they are in shape. Years ago, if you had a fat ass and a jelly belly you were unattractive to most males, those days are over.
 

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A few fat chicks were getting banged out by decent looking dudes back in the day because they had huge breasts. Now that fat "asses" are in demand, due to the likes of the Kardashians, some dudes will bang these bishes out, just for that ass, even she comes with extra pounds in the mid section. Fat chicks use this to their advantage. As long as they have some meat in the behind, they think they are in shape. Years ago, if you had a fat ass and a jelly belly you were unattractive to most males, those days are over.
If they'd stop eating carbs and processed foods, those pounds would be gone. It's not rocket science.
 

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This is due to the natural instinct of women to be hypergamous, and the natural instinct of men to stick it into anything with a heart and a hole. Fat women can be aggressive and get a decent-looking men to hit it.
There is no natural instinct for men to bang fat chicks. Thats an instinct that kicks in when you are desperate
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is no natural instinct for men to bang fat chicks. Thats an instinct that kicks in when you are desperate
Nothing wrong with a shapely ass, as long as her legs, arms, midsection, boobs, neck and face are tight.
 

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Long post, but I thought this conversation I had today on Reddit was rather amusing, a neat window into the mind of the man-hating Femin*zi and their total lack of logical faculties. Note how once I make some valid points, the mindless personal insults start.

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Me: What I find really irks me is when girls say "I'm naturally big." when they eat 4000 calories a day and do no exercise. That's not natural weight, it's obesity!

The massive hypocrisy is that the same unnaturally obese girls will reject any guy that isn't 6'4"+ and ripped to shreds at the same time, something which requires that man to do 2 hours in the gym every day and eat perfectly.

I had to work my socks off to stop being an obese male, I wouldn't dream of saying "Ha, I'm just naturally a slob so you have to find me attractive."

Reply: That's not hypocrisy. Honestly, as long as they aren't shaming anyone or being assh*les about it, I see no reason why they can't reject who they want. And the same goes for ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks. I think it's far better than them settling for someone they're not physically attracted to. And some people would just rather be alone than settle.

Me: It's not the rejection that's hypocritical, it's the entitlement.

"I'm entitled to a man who's a ripped gym buff, but meanwhile men should find me physically attractive for my "natural" state of making myself obese."

If an obese man told women they should find him attractive because he's naturally lazy and eats lots, he would in all seriousness probably die a virgin if he stuck with that attitude.

(Here comes the good bit)

Reply: If you bothered to read my comment instead of kneejerking you'd realize I said "the same goes for ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks".

Me:
Jeez. Umad? I did "bother" to read your comment!

The key difference is that ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks don't get to date hot chicks! Instead they either shape up at the gym or become loners. At best they date a girl far less desirable than what they originally unrealistically wanted.

Whereas I know about 10 obese girls in person that f*ck lean, gym-going guys whenever they fancy. Because society is working hard to normalise their lack of exercise or nutritional discipline for some bizarre reason, and men are comparatively desperate.

Reply: So you're just envious that women can **** hotter people than you can. That's kinda what I assumed. Carry on.

(LOL. TRIGGERED)

Me: When did this become about me? I'm certainly not an obese male (quite the opposite actually lol), but I appreciate your tasteless ad hominem there, thank you :)

Apparently you failed at reading skills (how ironic given your previous rude comment), because I never said anything that would suggest any degree of envy at all. I was merely pointing out how ridiculous it is that fat men are considered "ugly" (to use your term actually) by girls, but self-imposed obesity in girls? That's "natural". Men should find it attractive, apparently.

I guess I must have touched a nerve because you're clearly not able to discuss this in a civil or polite fashion without the most pathetic personal attacks. Carry on.

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Checkmate, but jeez. These people are just...nuts.
Yes you owned her. But it's a feminist, this is shooting fish in a barrel. You knew you were going to win the whole time, you just had to wait for her to slip up. Feminists are retards. She's never going to be reasonable.
 

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Long post, but I thought this conversation I had today on Reddit was rather amusing, a neat window into the mind of the man-hating Femin*zi and their total lack of logical faculties. Note how once I make some valid points, the mindless personal insults start.

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Me: What I find really irks me is when girls say "I'm naturally big." when they eat 4000 calories a day and do no exercise. That's not natural weight, it's obesity!

The massive hypocrisy is that the same unnaturally obese girls will reject any guy that isn't 6'4"+ and ripped to shreds at the same time, something which requires that man to do 2 hours in the gym every day and eat perfectly.

I had to work my socks off to stop being an obese male, I wouldn't dream of saying "Ha, I'm just naturally a slob so you have to find me attractive."

Reply: That's not hypocrisy. Honestly, as long as they aren't shaming anyone or being assh*les about it, I see no reason why they can't reject who they want. And the same goes for ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks. I think it's far better than them settling for someone they're not physically attracted to. And some people would just rather be alone than settle.

Me: It's not the rejection that's hypocritical, it's the entitlement.

"I'm entitled to a man who's a ripped gym buff, but meanwhile men should find me physically attractive for my "natural" state of making myself obese."

If an obese man told women they should find him attractive because he's naturally lazy and eats lots, he would in all seriousness probably die a virgin if he stuck with that attitude.

(Here comes the good bit)

Reply: If you bothered to read my comment instead of kneejerking you'd realize I said "the same goes for ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks".

Me:
Jeez. Umad? I did "bother" to read your comment!

The key difference is that ugly fat guys who only want to date hot chicks don't get to date hot chicks! Instead they either shape up at the gym or become loners. At best they date a girl far less desirable than what they originally unrealistically wanted.

Whereas I know about 10 obese girls in person that f*ck lean, gym-going guys whenever they fancy. Because society is working hard to normalise their lack of exercise or nutritional discipline for some bizarre reason, and men are comparatively desperate.

Reply: So you're just envious that women can **** hotter people than you can. That's kinda what I assumed. Carry on.

(LOL. TRIGGERED)

Me: When did this become about me? I'm certainly not an obese male (quite the opposite actually lol), but I appreciate your tasteless ad hominem there, thank you :)

Apparently you failed at reading skills (how ironic given your previous rude comment), because I never said anything that would suggest any degree of envy at all. I was merely pointing out how ridiculous it is that fat men are considered "ugly" (to use your term actually) by girls, but self-imposed obesity in girls? That's "natural". Men should find it attractive, apparently.

I guess I must have touched a nerve because you're clearly not able to discuss this in a civil or polite fashion without the most pathetic personal attacks. Carry on.

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Checkmate, but jeez. These people are just...nuts.
It's stupidity on your part.

For one, you cannot use reason or logic with an idiot. Expect female logic.

Jack Nicholson hit it nail on in a movie about thinking of a man and taking away reason.

What to expect from a society that pedals girl power, promo for being slut, fat, single mom, and above shame. If anything, men should marry her after best years are over. Raise Chad's baby with his booty call *** dumpster.

Foot bills with not in the mood. With bulking season. With her entitlement and best of all, her ****ty attitude. Why? Because you were last pick. He got his proteins swallowed. Your lucky to get it a few times a month.

Marry her. Follow the beaten path of society.
 

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Studies have shown that when people dont agree with an idea on the internet, they will think the writer is an idiot. That same discussion would be much different in person...

You both likely think the same of each other, so who is correct?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Guys...

Why should it even bother you ?... If they think fat is beautiful... Let them and just smile and walk away. Same goes for feminists.... Ignore the damaged and keep improving yourself and score the best ass you can.
 

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Studies have shown that when people dont agree with an idea on the internet, they will think the writer is an idiot. That same discussion would be much different in person...

You both likely think the same of each other, so who is correct?
Me. Lol.

In all seriousness, I didn't think she was an idiot because her idea was particularly stupid. But her means of argument was demonstrably idiotic.

She skipped from reasoned points to mindless ad hominem attack on me several posts in a row, which is a critical indicator that:

1 - Someone's argument has no answers to reasoned questions or points.
2 - Someone is incapable of reasonable debate without s**t slinging.

You see 2 people arguing:
Person 1: "People are not from Mars."
Person 2: "Hah, so you're saying we're from Pluto? HAHA! You're ugly too."

Person 2 does not have an argument. They're just performing a strawman followed by an ad hominem.

The reason mankind bothered listing types of failures of critical thinking, or deliberately misleading critical thinking (strawman fallacy, ad hominem attack, appeal to popularity, appeal to authority etc. etc.) is because an argument is completely invalid if it relies on these flaws rather than any kind of factual basis.

Her argument relied on logical fallacies - note how she is unable to refute or even address anything in my posts, instead leaping to strawmanning my argument ("You're envious of fat women") and following it up with an ad hominem ("You're probably unattractive and a loser because you disagree with me"). A different person could probably provide a valid argument from her perspective.

The reason all this is important is because these debate techniques influence our daily life.

When you have 2 Presidential candidates insulting each other's d*ck sizes rather than talking issues, that's this same problem on a monumental scale.
 
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Me. Lol.

In all seriousness, I didn't think she was an idiot because her idea was particularly stupid. But her means of argument was demonstrably idiotic.

She skipped from reasoned points to mindless ad hominem attack on me several posts in a row, which is a critical indicator that:

1 - Someone's argument has no answers to reasoned questions or points.
2 - Someone is incapable of reasonable debate without s**t slinging.

You see 2 people arguing:
Person 1: "People are not from Mars."
Person 2: "Hah, so you're saying we're from Pluto? HAHA! You're ugly too."

Person 2 does not have an argument. They're just performing a strawman followed by an ad hominem.

The reason mankind bothered listing types of failures of critical thinking, or deliberately misleading critical thinking (strawman fallacy, ad hominem attack, appeal to popularity, appeal to authority etc. etc.) is because an argument is completely invalid if it relies on these flaws rather than any kind of factual basis.

Her argument relied on logical fallacies - note how she is unable to refute or even address anything in my posts, instead leaping to strawmanning my argument ("You're envious of fat women") and following it up with an ad hominem ("You're probably unattractive and a loser because you disagree with me"). A different person could probably provide a valid argument from her perspective.

The reason all this is important is because these debate techniques influence our daily life.

When you have 2 Presidential candidates insulting each other's d*ck sizes rather than talking issues, that's this same problem on a monumental scale.
But the issue your presenting is completely subjective, as is hers. She is a woman and her behavior suggests you ruffled her feathers a bit. Neither of you have any factual evidence, however, you agreed with her that good looking men end up with jeffers while the opposite does not occur.

The problem is not the women, the problem is the men. Yet, you blame the women. If a fat woman recieved zero attention, she would either lose weight or relegate herself to the cess pool of men chasing one thing.

The woman you spoke to is merely taking advantage of the situation those men provide for her, just as any human being will take advantage of any situation that proves beneficial.
 
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