I broke up with this girl a little while ago, and I'm still really hung up on her. I broke up with her because I didn't want a long distance relationship at this point in my life, which was where our relationship was headed. I'm a 21 year old college student, why should I be with someone that I can only see once every other month or so?
I've been kind of depressed about it, confidence took a huge hit, didn't think I'd find another girl that good looking, that sweet, anything like that. Frankly, I'm sick of feeling like this.
So last night, I go out drinking with a group of people. Only know a couple of people in the group. One the ones I don't know is a girl, not bad looking, but certainly nothing to brag about. I work best in situations like this, so I just said, fu-k it, I'm going to go all out on this girl.
Everything I say works. Everything I do works. I'm playing the group, teasing everyone, mostly her, and throw some kino in now and then, even non-targets (a little competition goes a long way). Everyone loves me, she's attracted to me. I think I had 4 drinks bought for me. By the end of the night, we're sitting at a table, she's rubbing my legs from underneath and winking at me. I get the group back to my place. I go into my room for a minute, checking my e-mail. She follows me into my room, goes onto my bed, and pretends to be interested in something I have near my bed.
All the sudden, I completely lose interest. I can't pull the trigger. Or rather, I don't want to pull the trigger.
For all intents and purposes, I got the girl. My confidence was boosted. But, at the same time, I still have hangups with my ex. I was able to get to the very top of the hump, where all I needed to do was go in for the kill, and I let it all slip away.
I've been kind of depressed about it, confidence took a huge hit, didn't think I'd find another girl that good looking, that sweet, anything like that. Frankly, I'm sick of feeling like this.
So last night, I go out drinking with a group of people. Only know a couple of people in the group. One the ones I don't know is a girl, not bad looking, but certainly nothing to brag about. I work best in situations like this, so I just said, fu-k it, I'm going to go all out on this girl.
Everything I say works. Everything I do works. I'm playing the group, teasing everyone, mostly her, and throw some kino in now and then, even non-targets (a little competition goes a long way). Everyone loves me, she's attracted to me. I think I had 4 drinks bought for me. By the end of the night, we're sitting at a table, she's rubbing my legs from underneath and winking at me. I get the group back to my place. I go into my room for a minute, checking my e-mail. She follows me into my room, goes onto my bed, and pretends to be interested in something I have near my bed.
All the sudden, I completely lose interest. I can't pull the trigger. Or rather, I don't want to pull the trigger.
For all intents and purposes, I got the girl. My confidence was boosted. But, at the same time, I still have hangups with my ex. I was able to get to the very top of the hump, where all I needed to do was go in for the kill, and I let it all slip away.