Ntwadumela
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I took me some virginity! :rockon:
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Congrats. Lol pro's and cons? Does it really matter now, you've already done it?
Anyway, provided they're warmed up and wet, she should be comfortable after the first few sessions.
Anyway, provided they're warmed up and wet, she should be comfortable after the first few sessions.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Igetit!
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I'm not going to blast you because you're only 21. But boy,what an ego on you. She said that she doesn't ever want to do "that" with anyone else,right?
And let me guess: You believe her,right? You've been here 4 years longer than I have,so you already know that women are more emtional than men,and you know that sex is more emti0onally charged for them than us,ESPECIALLY being a woman's first time. I can't believe you brought up "Swimfan" and "Deadly Attraction" as comparasins for the kind of attachment you think this girl might have for you. Of course she was going to say something like that after having sex for the first time ever,she's a girl. You know how women are. You know they're emotional. And you know their emotions are like the weather,unpredictable.
It's like when a girl gives you her number,then 2 days later when you call her,she flakes. At the moment you were talking to her and got her number,she seemed interested and attracted to you,but 2 days later,when you call her,you have to remind her who you are,and even then she can't remember you.
So if what she said about wanting to have sex with you,and you only is true,then CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That means (at least from her point of view) you're engaged.
I wouldn't take too much stock in what she to you about when wanting sex with you and only you,especially if she said it while the two of you were still in bed together.
And let me guess: You believe her,right? You've been here 4 years longer than I have,so you already know that women are more emtional than men,and you know that sex is more emti0onally charged for them than us,ESPECIALLY being a woman's first time. I can't believe you brought up "Swimfan" and "Deadly Attraction" as comparasins for the kind of attachment you think this girl might have for you. Of course she was going to say something like that after having sex for the first time ever,she's a girl. You know how women are. You know they're emotional. And you know their emotions are like the weather,unpredictable.
It's like when a girl gives you her number,then 2 days later when you call her,she flakes. At the moment you were talking to her and got her number,she seemed interested and attracted to you,but 2 days later,when you call her,you have to remind her who you are,and even then she can't remember you.
So if what she said about wanting to have sex with you,and you only is true,then CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That means (at least from her point of view) you're engaged.
I wouldn't take too much stock in what she to you about when wanting sex with you and only you,especially if she said it while the two of you were still in bed together.
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I see. I thought you were a dweeb asking stupid questions. So she gave it up. Great.Ntwadumela said:see this was all explained but it was too long. yeah i took it like a week and a half ago
My bad. :rock:
BTW. Don't believe what she says. Chicks change their mind all the time.
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repost the thing dude.. people will give you better advice
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.