Ntwadumela
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I took me some virginity! :rockon:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Congrats. Lol pro's and cons? Does it really matter now, you've already done it?
Anyway, provided they're warmed up and wet, she should be comfortable after the first few sessions.
Anyway, provided they're warmed up and wet, she should be comfortable after the first few sessions.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Igetit!
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I'm not going to blast you because you're only 21. But boy,what an ego on you. She said that she doesn't ever want to do "that" with anyone else,right?
And let me guess: You believe her,right? You've been here 4 years longer than I have,so you already know that women are more emtional than men,and you know that sex is more emti0onally charged for them than us,ESPECIALLY being a woman's first time. I can't believe you brought up "Swimfan" and "Deadly Attraction" as comparasins for the kind of attachment you think this girl might have for you. Of course she was going to say something like that after having sex for the first time ever,she's a girl. You know how women are. You know they're emotional. And you know their emotions are like the weather,unpredictable.
It's like when a girl gives you her number,then 2 days later when you call her,she flakes. At the moment you were talking to her and got her number,she seemed interested and attracted to you,but 2 days later,when you call her,you have to remind her who you are,and even then she can't remember you.
So if what she said about wanting to have sex with you,and you only is true,then CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That means (at least from her point of view) you're engaged.
I wouldn't take too much stock in what she to you about when wanting sex with you and only you,especially if she said it while the two of you were still in bed together.
And let me guess: You believe her,right? You've been here 4 years longer than I have,so you already know that women are more emtional than men,and you know that sex is more emti0onally charged for them than us,ESPECIALLY being a woman's first time. I can't believe you brought up "Swimfan" and "Deadly Attraction" as comparasins for the kind of attachment you think this girl might have for you. Of course she was going to say something like that after having sex for the first time ever,she's a girl. You know how women are. You know they're emotional. And you know their emotions are like the weather,unpredictable.
It's like when a girl gives you her number,then 2 days later when you call her,she flakes. At the moment you were talking to her and got her number,she seemed interested and attracted to you,but 2 days later,when you call her,you have to remind her who you are,and even then she can't remember you.
So if what she said about wanting to have sex with you,and you only is true,then CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That means (at least from her point of view) you're engaged.
I wouldn't take too much stock in what she to you about when wanting sex with you and only you,especially if she said it while the two of you were still in bed together.
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I see. I thought you were a dweeb asking stupid questions. So she gave it up. Great.Ntwadumela said:see this was all explained but it was too long. yeah i took it like a week and a half ago
My bad. :rock:
BTW. Don't believe what she says. Chicks change their mind all the time.
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repost the thing dude.. people will give you better advice
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.