Ntwadumela
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I took me some virginity! :rockon:
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Congrats. Lol pro's and cons? Does it really matter now, you've already done it?
Anyway, provided they're warmed up and wet, she should be comfortable after the first few sessions.
Anyway, provided they're warmed up and wet, she should be comfortable after the first few sessions.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Igetit!
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I'm not going to blast you because you're only 21. But boy,what an ego on you. She said that she doesn't ever want to do "that" with anyone else,right?
And let me guess: You believe her,right? You've been here 4 years longer than I have,so you already know that women are more emtional than men,and you know that sex is more emti0onally charged for them than us,ESPECIALLY being a woman's first time. I can't believe you brought up "Swimfan" and "Deadly Attraction" as comparasins for the kind of attachment you think this girl might have for you. Of course she was going to say something like that after having sex for the first time ever,she's a girl. You know how women are. You know they're emotional. And you know their emotions are like the weather,unpredictable.
It's like when a girl gives you her number,then 2 days later when you call her,she flakes. At the moment you were talking to her and got her number,she seemed interested and attracted to you,but 2 days later,when you call her,you have to remind her who you are,and even then she can't remember you.
So if what she said about wanting to have sex with you,and you only is true,then CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That means (at least from her point of view) you're engaged.
I wouldn't take too much stock in what she to you about when wanting sex with you and only you,especially if she said it while the two of you were still in bed together.
And let me guess: You believe her,right? You've been here 4 years longer than I have,so you already know that women are more emtional than men,and you know that sex is more emti0onally charged for them than us,ESPECIALLY being a woman's first time. I can't believe you brought up "Swimfan" and "Deadly Attraction" as comparasins for the kind of attachment you think this girl might have for you. Of course she was going to say something like that after having sex for the first time ever,she's a girl. You know how women are. You know they're emotional. And you know their emotions are like the weather,unpredictable.
It's like when a girl gives you her number,then 2 days later when you call her,she flakes. At the moment you were talking to her and got her number,she seemed interested and attracted to you,but 2 days later,when you call her,you have to remind her who you are,and even then she can't remember you.
So if what she said about wanting to have sex with you,and you only is true,then CONGRATULATIONS!!!! That means (at least from her point of view) you're engaged.
I wouldn't take too much stock in what she to you about when wanting sex with you and only you,especially if she said it while the two of you were still in bed together.
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I see. I thought you were a dweeb asking stupid questions. So she gave it up. Great.Ntwadumela said:see this was all explained but it was too long. yeah i took it like a week and a half ago
My bad. :rock:
BTW. Don't believe what she says. Chicks change their mind all the time.
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repost the thing dude.. people will give you better advice
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.