"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I took a look at myself

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onyx

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as the thread title says i took a look at myself after readin sumthin on here

"if you aint happy with urself how can u expect any 1 else to b"

so i sat down and made a list of long/short term goals...its pretty obvious really but ive put a few into action this last week or so...

i only set myself 3 for now but as soon as im into a routine with 1 or 2 ill add more.

1. Learn to drive - i realised that all my friends hav passed and/or nearly ready to take their test, when i havnt even started to learn...so i foned up a drivin instructor and booked sum lessons i intend to keep it up this time as last year i had 13 lessons then quit.

2 - Join a gym - I need something to do with myself, as a hobby past time so i decided to join a gym, i'm pretty skinny so i feel i need to bulk up as ive read sum threads on here and its basically bulk up and u get more attention

3 - Get new clothes - Some clothes i still wear I have had for abt 2 years, such as coats jackets etc. I always wear the same 3 or 4 hats. So i've decided that i'll buy new clothes, as i dont really feel comfortable any more in the style of clothes i wear.



I also intend to start the DJ boot camp as soon as i get into a rountine with the gym/drivin goals
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Good luck, I'm sure all 3 things will increase the amount of attention you're getting.

Driving is crucial in my opinion, girls are shallow and having your own car/licence is worth 2-3 points on the looks scale to them.

Bulking up is also good, the feeling you get when someone compliments you on having toned muscles is worth every bit of the effort it took to get them and more!

As for clothing, yep also very important, just go for smart/casual, with a hint of originality and you'll get all the attention you want.

All the best

Waldo
 
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