"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I Took A Chance And Won

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So I've been dating this girl who has gotten a little too comfortable with me lately. She got to the point where she thought that I would be there for her whenever and wherever she wanted. Not a good thing IMO.

But I had an idea...

I decided to back off and give her less attention. That always works we know this. But I decided to do something else that I'd never done before. I made up a story about an ex-g/f who contacted me again and wanted to go get a drink. The girl I'm dating freaked out and said that she wouldn't give me up without a fight. She now calls me all the time, wants to hang out every damn day and is afraid if she doesn't do what I want that I'll just hang out with my "ex".

This could of gone either way... she could have said good luck with the ex.. but it worked exactly how I hoped.

Another successful expirement in dating.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Industry,

Is this the same EMO chick? I'm not sure if I got you confused with someone else, but take my advice from experience, you got her interest level up by showing she's disposable. However, you're going to have to keep doing these types of tricks, to keep her interested, and you cannot fall back to your old AFC ways. I don't mean that as an insult. I'm going to guess you were too nice to her before. You now have more power in the relationship, you need to just keep it, otherwise, she will go back to her old ways again.
 
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sucks that you have to lie about this type of crap. She wants you more when you totally disrespect her? F*cking women...
 
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Yeah, well, obsidian, a lot of GUYS would act the same way too. Can't blame everything on women man.

Industry, whatever you do now, make you sure you NEVER fess up about this to her. She'll never forgive you.

And if you're gonna lie, make sure you've got a good memory, cos once you start, it's so easy to get lost in your own web.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She came over this morning. Best head she ever gave!! Haha. And she's cooking me dinner tonight. Ribs and Mashed Potatoes. Damn.
 
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