"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I Took A Chance And Won

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So I've been dating this girl who has gotten a little too comfortable with me lately. She got to the point where she thought that I would be there for her whenever and wherever she wanted. Not a good thing IMO.

But I had an idea...

I decided to back off and give her less attention. That always works we know this. But I decided to do something else that I'd never done before. I made up a story about an ex-g/f who contacted me again and wanted to go get a drink. The girl I'm dating freaked out and said that she wouldn't give me up without a fight. She now calls me all the time, wants to hang out every damn day and is afraid if she doesn't do what I want that I'll just hang out with my "ex".

This could of gone either way... she could have said good luck with the ex.. but it worked exactly how I hoped.

Another successful expirement in dating.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Industry,

Is this the same EMO chick? I'm not sure if I got you confused with someone else, but take my advice from experience, you got her interest level up by showing she's disposable. However, you're going to have to keep doing these types of tricks, to keep her interested, and you cannot fall back to your old AFC ways. I don't mean that as an insult. I'm going to guess you were too nice to her before. You now have more power in the relationship, you need to just keep it, otherwise, she will go back to her old ways again.
 
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sucks that you have to lie about this type of crap. She wants you more when you totally disrespect her? F*cking women...
 
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Yeah, well, obsidian, a lot of GUYS would act the same way too. Can't blame everything on women man.

Industry, whatever you do now, make you sure you NEVER fess up about this to her. She'll never forgive you.

And if you're gonna lie, make sure you've got a good memory, cos once you start, it's so easy to get lost in your own web.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She came over this morning. Best head she ever gave!! Haha. And she's cooking me dinner tonight. Ribs and Mashed Potatoes. Damn.
 
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