"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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donjuanapprentice01

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But, get this!

A guy I know is hanging out at a chick's apartment all day, because a bed she bought is getting delivered and she is working and won't be home, so this chump is actually going to hang at her apartment waiting for the delivery guy!

I almost puked when I heard about it! I feel awful for this guy, he is a super AFC, very shy and quiet, thinking about this makes me angry and sad. He needs a SWIFT KICK TO THE BALLS!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tomatoes

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I know a guy who took a girl into town the other day in his car. Stayed sober....bought her drinks for her.Then brought her home again after in his car....I slapped him round the back of the head for it......

Some people really are that AFC

HB: Jump!
AFC: How High?


pfft! Makes me sick....


Sarge On!
 

ye yeah

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pityful,the last girl i was afc 100% with,back in the older days where i thought being nice was the go.

i confessed my liking for one particular girl.3 times,in 4 months,i was pathetic,reading over my old convo's with her makes me sick,every ounce of power i had,i gave up,now ive got it all back,and me and her are good friends again.
 

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what the guy in post number 2 did was 100% AFC, as for the first post it depends on his relation with the girl, its not nesscerily AFC at all, if they are really good freinds, but the fact that you are mentioning it probably means it is since you must know the situation.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
what the guy in post number 2 did was 100% AFC, as for the first post it depends on his relation with the girl, its not nesscerily AFC at all, if they are really good freinds, but the fact that you are mentioning it probably means it is since you must know the situation.
Yeah it is not so much the actions, but the situation. Is this guy "secretly" madly in love with her, but does not show it? Or is he just a good friend. If it is the former, I hope you give him a few lessons in attraction 101.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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donjuanapprentice01

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
what the guy in post number 2 did was 100% AFC, as for the first post it depends on his relation with the girl, its not nesscerily AFC at all, if they are really good freinds, but the fact that you are mentioning it probably means it is since you must know the situation.
How is that not AFC? I don't care if he is good friends or not, surely this guy has other and better things to do with his time than sit in some chicks apartment all day waiting for a delivery guy.

And I doubt he's banging her, although I could be wrong, but even if her were, it's still mega AFC to do something like that.
 

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If this guy is not hitting it then he is a big AFC!!! However, let us play devil's advocate and assume he is waiting on her bed that he will be banging her on and sleeping on from time to time. I would not think that was an AFC move at all. If it had a time frame of like 8am to 5pm, that sure would suck and probably push him closer to being an AFC.
 

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Actually, AFCs spoil girls and make it worse for all the rest of us. Men need to mobilize and start treating women like they all really deserve. Sometimes happiness isn't found by getting more and more, but by having shyt taken AWAY and then learning to appreciate it more.

Many of the HBs I've gone out with recently were totally spoiled by their exes - or guys simply wanting to get in their pants. Buying them designer accessories or blowing hundreds on a date - or even handing over cold, hard cash! And, we wonder why they get attitudes of self-entitlement? Because AFCs fvcking GIVE IT TO THEM! JUST SAY NO, fellas! Be a man!
 
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