"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I thought I was bad...

donjuanapprentice01

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But, get this!

A guy I know is hanging out at a chick's apartment all day, because a bed she bought is getting delivered and she is working and won't be home, so this chump is actually going to hang at her apartment waiting for the delivery guy!

I almost puked when I heard about it! I feel awful for this guy, he is a super AFC, very shy and quiet, thinking about this makes me angry and sad. He needs a SWIFT KICK TO THE BALLS!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tomatoes

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I know a guy who took a girl into town the other day in his car. Stayed sober....bought her drinks for her.Then brought her home again after in his car....I slapped him round the back of the head for it......

Some people really are that AFC

HB: Jump!
AFC: How High?


pfft! Makes me sick....


Sarge On!
 

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pityful,the last girl i was afc 100% with,back in the older days where i thought being nice was the go.

i confessed my liking for one particular girl.3 times,in 4 months,i was pathetic,reading over my old convo's with her makes me sick,every ounce of power i had,i gave up,now ive got it all back,and me and her are good friends again.
 

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what the guy in post number 2 did was 100% AFC, as for the first post it depends on his relation with the girl, its not nesscerily AFC at all, if they are really good freinds, but the fact that you are mentioning it probably means it is since you must know the situation.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
what the guy in post number 2 did was 100% AFC, as for the first post it depends on his relation with the girl, its not nesscerily AFC at all, if they are really good freinds, but the fact that you are mentioning it probably means it is since you must know the situation.
Yeah it is not so much the actions, but the situation. Is this guy "secretly" madly in love with her, but does not show it? Or is he just a good friend. If it is the former, I hope you give him a few lessons in attraction 101.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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donjuanapprentice01

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check_mate_kid_uk said:
what the guy in post number 2 did was 100% AFC, as for the first post it depends on his relation with the girl, its not nesscerily AFC at all, if they are really good freinds, but the fact that you are mentioning it probably means it is since you must know the situation.
How is that not AFC? I don't care if he is good friends or not, surely this guy has other and better things to do with his time than sit in some chicks apartment all day waiting for a delivery guy.

And I doubt he's banging her, although I could be wrong, but even if her were, it's still mega AFC to do something like that.
 

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If this guy is not hitting it then he is a big AFC!!! However, let us play devil's advocate and assume he is waiting on her bed that he will be banging her on and sleeping on from time to time. I would not think that was an AFC move at all. If it had a time frame of like 8am to 5pm, that sure would suck and probably push him closer to being an AFC.
 

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Actually, AFCs spoil girls and make it worse for all the rest of us. Men need to mobilize and start treating women like they all really deserve. Sometimes happiness isn't found by getting more and more, but by having shyt taken AWAY and then learning to appreciate it more.

Many of the HBs I've gone out with recently were totally spoiled by their exes - or guys simply wanting to get in their pants. Buying them designer accessories or blowing hundreds on a date - or even handing over cold, hard cash! And, we wonder why they get attitudes of self-entitlement? Because AFCs fvcking GIVE IT TO THEM! JUST SAY NO, fellas! Be a man!
 
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