I thought I passed the s*it test ...

[zigzag77889]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts?

 

[Tilex]

I think she's testing your boundaries in person when she's using her phone.
You need to check her for that unbearably rude behavior.
Tell her she needs to put that damn phone away, otherwise she can find her own ride home.
Don't even be afraid to walk away. I see this entire situation as a power grab.

 

[redskinsfan92]

The test was would you put up with her rude behavior. You did. You paid attention to her words instead of her actions.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts?

It's called she wasn't that interested. You were the person who just happened to be there while she waited for better options to come through.

Also in my experiences with very hot chicks the sex is never that good...how was your experience with it?

 

[zigzag77889]

At one point we discussed male-female interaction dynamics. I said something like men should approach and seduce women, risk with rejection and being perceived as shameless, otherwise nothing will happen, women won’t take the first step. To my surprise she strongly disagreed. That the idea of men seducing women ought to be feminine. Men should just stand there and it is women’s job to seduce men. That was an interesting insight. Perhaps that’s how things work in the world of rich and beautiful. It seemed like we are from completely different worlds. Maybe models and millionaires are in another league where common people have no business.

 

[Lookatu]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

Definite red flag right there. Be glad you banged her at least and had your turn. The problem lies in her, something you can't change and should accept. Plate her and have your turn but don't invest in something you can't win.

 

[Romanemp22]

It may be she's not into you that much. If she likes you she will engage with you more. Also on date using a phone is a big sign of disrespect which unfortunately you obliged to. When she brings her phone up for no reason you tell her put that fvckin phone down. If she continues you walk away and never talk to her again. Always remember your time is priceless and there is no time to waste with an disrespectful b1tch.She's not ltr material.

 

[dude99]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts?

This doesn't sound like s#it tests. It sound like she is completely uninterested.

 

[Romanemp22]

It's called she wasn't that interested. You were the person who just happened to be there while she waited for better options to come through.

Also in my experiences with very hot chicks the sex is never that good...how was your experience with it?

In my experience, best way to deal with beautiful girls is to get into their head. Treating her like she's sh1t, making her insecure will make her go after you so bad because all she ever got in life from guys was how pretty or hot she is.

 

[zigzag77889]

Thought bitching over using a phone could be regarded as whining

 

[bcude]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Serious red flag for something serious. Said she had had many rich boyfriends spinning plates hardcore because her beauty allows/allowed it. but now is looking for serious LTR. Declining looks and probably biologic clock ticking much louder. I was like – let’s see where it gets us… good response

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. Common problem for extremely beautiful women, you've to be a very self-confident secure man, I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me. Good that you didn't 'cave in' but rather low interest from her side. Busy people have to prioritise and her actions tell you how much she values you.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. Disrespectful behaviour you can't allow, probably used to get away with whatever because of her beauty. Good opportunity to stand out and show her that you're not fazed by her looks. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. Confirms once again the amount of male orbiters she has in her life and lack of respect. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. When your gut is telling you something, you better listen. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. I'd say partly yes, partly no because women are taught that 'anything goes' nowadays. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages. Low interest.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts? Have fun while it lasts but LTR? I'd suggest no. Women like this belong to the game. She flat out told you she doesn't know what commitment is/means and i can tell you she's been with so many men at this point that she needs new male attention, like she needs air.

I'm in bold.

 

[Romanemp22]

Thought bitching over using a phone could be regarded as whining

So standing up for yourself and not tolerating her sh1t is whining? First time hearing this.

 

[Lookatu]

One thing I've learned and it is one of my screening questions for girls, is if they never had a LTR in 35years of living their life, there's a reason why she hasn't and in 35 years, it's definitely not the guys fault for this. There is definitely something fundamentally wrong with her.

If you dig deep enough granted if you were ever in a position to, you'll find out why.

I learned the hard way not once but twice, spending a good amount of time with a couple of these b1tches.

Now I just instantly next if a gal tells me she hasn't had a LTR in 10 years or more. Big major red flag for me.

 

[r4zorsharp]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts?

Please read, remember and even note this down for future:
Just because a woman has sex with you, does not mean shes interested in you as anything more than a friend.

Let me repeat.

Just because a woman has sex with you, does not mean shes interested in you as anything more than a friend.

Just because a woman has sex with you, does not mean shes interested in you as anything more than a friend.

Just because a woman has sex with you, does not mean shes interested in you as anything more than a friend.

Just because a woman has sex with you, does not mean shes interested in you as anything more than a friend.

Just because a woman has sex with you, does not mean shes interested in you as anything more than a friend.

 

[zigzag77889]

Why would a sexy ****ed up girl be a red flag? I wanted to have sex with her. Never wanted a LTR, especially not with her. Why should I next sex with a sexy woman? It was a challenge - wanted to see if I can get her more into me. I couldn't

 

[Lookatu]

Why would a sexy ****ed up girl be a red flag? I wanted to have sex with her. Never wanted a LTR, especially not with her. Why should I next sex with a sexy woman? It was a challenge - wanted to see if I can get her more into me. I couldn't

Cool. I misunderstood then. Glad you were able to bang her but for the guys that actually are looking for a LTR, it could be helpful advice to use that as one of the screening questions early on.

 

[The Duke]

Very interesting case. Education-wise Dated a model for few months. At first there was definitely attraction. Had sex on our 2nd or 3rd date. She was 35 yo, never had LTR. Said she had had many rich boyfriends but now is looking for serious LTR. I was like – let’s see where it gets us…

She said that most men are needy and clingy and that turns her off. I had no problem with that. I thought. I texted her once a week and invited her to get together. Often she refused, she was busy. One time I just wanted to see how long does it take her to contact first – 2 weeks passed after she contacted me.

When together she was constantly using her phone, chatting, checking etc. At one point she was excited that her exboyfriend had written her. All this was strange but I was just curios where it goes. I wondered can she herself see that this is weird. At the same time when we were not together it took her 1-2 days to reply to my messages.

Thought the test was not to be clingy and needy and obsessed of her beauty, and I passed that but apparently not… Any thoughts?

Simply a low value woman with not enough interest in you for this to go very far.

 

[zigzag77889]

In theory - thanks to sosuave teachings - a man should be able to seduce any girl, right? That is why I keep thinking about how to find a way to get a particular, hard to get girl. I'm not obsessed with a girl per se, i'm ombsessed with learning how to solve unsolvable situations - have I done enough? Could I have done something differently? etc

 

[r4zorsharp]

In theory - thanks to sosuave teachings - a man should be able to seduce any girl, right? That is why I keep thinking about how to find a way to get a particular, hard to get girl. I'm not obsessed with a girl per se, i'm ombsessed with learning how to solve unsolvable situations - have I done enough? Could I have done something differently? etc

Indeed man. YOu can definitely work to seduce a girl. But so far as you seen, is this the type of girl you want? A girl who can have sex with a man she sees as nothing more than a friend? These type of girls are what we used to know as Hoe's, before it became fashionable for women to have sex as much as they want with whoever as long as their single, and disregard guys feelings and all.

Thank Cardi B, Nicki Minaj, Meghan The Stallion and these other hoes, Madonna and whoever else for really pushing that.

Let me answer that question for you though, based on you making this thread.. The answer is No. This is not the type of girl you want. She clearly doesn't value you enough.. so it will be an uphill battle for you to win her. and when you win her, if she doesnt want a relationship, ur gonna have to deal with her being ab le to f.ck other guys.. until she finds a guy she seems worthy and decides to settle down.

 

[zigzag77889]

I dont see her as a measure to value myself. I give myself value. In order to lear, I tolerate a situation or a person for as much as I can or as much as it is useful. I dont get offended easily. She's a woman. Definitely she's head over feels for some guy somewhere. I try to figure out what that other guy does differently. My mistake was, I considered making of remarks or negative comments whining. Maybe its not.