"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think you should pay . . . .What the f*ck???
- Thread starter WRX_is_like_SEX
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WRX_is_like_SEX
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...As I said previously, I have no problem paying, but where does the sense of entitlement come from . . . I asked her if she wants to hang out, but she suggested lunch(to which I foolishly agreed) . . . .And after that, checking what tip I left suggests to me that I was dealing for a real piece of sh*t . . .. . .After the amount of ungrateful *****es I have encountered, I see this to be bad tone . . . .I had a girlfriend who used to take me out all the time and we never ever had an issue over who pays what, and no one really expected anything, other than enjoying each others company . .
. . . .Could this thread please finally disappear!
Charlie Gordon
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Good advice. You reminded me of a favorite line.persistent exaction said:
If during your first get-together she recommends stopping at a restaurant, say "I hope you're in the mood for Dutch."
Nothing I like better than a woman with a sense of humor.
apusislaya
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If a girl says you should pay, she's using you for money. A girl should have no problem splitting the cost with you, or else she should not order the most expensive item on the menu.
Now, if you go with it, instead of saying no let's split it, that does not make you a Don Juan. It makes you a John. :yes:
Further more, paying instead of sticking up to your ideals, is not right. Women are getting away with murder.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonGorgon
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apusislaya said:
Yeh cause men are very desperate due to the shortage of women and have become more willing to treat women extra special in hopes of sniffing the vagina.
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DonGorgon said:
The solution is not to be like other men. The solution is banging the system, instead of getting banged by the system.
If you ain't banging on the system, you ain't banging.
Beyond this, the politics of it all is like the oldest profession, end result is always the same.