"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think we should take a break

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yogy

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I want to try this thing with a girl.
She is kind in control/dominating the relationship :box: and I am not happy with this and if it will continue like this I am sure that she will break up with me (and I DON'T WANT THIS to happen ;) ).I know that I need to be the "man" and all that, but till I get there ( I am not right now in our relationship :( ) will it be a good idea to tell her "i think we should take a break","I am just confused and need some time to figure things out" or something like this or not ?
And if it is a good move what next ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tell her what you think...

if you think she's too demanding then tell her that and then go from that.
 
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Thing is what happens after the 'break'? it'll probably go right back to being as it was.

Maybe shes just too controlling for you and you need to look elsewhere. People pretty much never change and how you find them thats how they'll be for life.

Instead of taking a break, cut the time you see her to once/twice a week and you be the one setting the time, location and activites of dates.

Try setting the pace and see how she reacts to this.
 
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