"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i think we should take a break

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yogy

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I want to try this thing with a girl.
She is kind in control/dominating the relationship :box: and I am not happy with this and if it will continue like this I am sure that she will break up with me (and I DON'T WANT THIS to happen ;) ).I know that I need to be the "man" and all that, but till I get there ( I am not right now in our relationship :( ) will it be a good idea to tell her "i think we should take a break","I am just confused and need some time to figure things out" or something like this or not ?
And if it is a good move what next ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tell her what you think...

if you think she's too demanding then tell her that and then go from that.
 
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Thing is what happens after the 'break'? it'll probably go right back to being as it was.

Maybe shes just too controlling for you and you need to look elsewhere. People pretty much never change and how you find them thats how they'll be for life.

Instead of taking a break, cut the time you see her to once/twice a week and you be the one setting the time, location and activites of dates.

Try setting the pace and see how she reacts to this.
 
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