"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey..

I just got a date with a girl. Here is how i did it.

I --> Who will win the world cup
She --> Italy
I --> I think France will win (Be honest, i think italy will win to, but i say France anyway)
She --> France will not win. Trust me.
I --> Want bet? Let's bet on a Buffet
She --> (umm.. thinking,) sure.

...

That is the trick. You see it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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But I have question:

In case if I win, should I pay for the meal anyway??

Thanks for your feedback
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Of course you could always just ask her out on a date and not be homosexual about it.
 

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you can comment anything you want
if you are laughing at me, please give me a reason..

what is up with my trick?
 

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PowertripII said:
I'm sorry.. when did I stumble into the grade-school forum?
:cheer:
 

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ticks said:
you can comment anything you want
if you are laughing at me, please give me a reason..

what is up with my trick?
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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But it worked, at least..
If i got rejected, i was just an joke..

tell me if you have a better way..

oakraiderz2 said:
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
Please remember that we arent here to put others down. There is already enough negativetity on this board.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Please remember that we arent here to put others down. There is already enough negativetity on this board.
It's not really being 'negative' if you're right.

First off, he's using the oldest trick in the book (deception)
Secondly, he's trying to pass it off as a new way of breaking the ice. (whoopidty-doo!)

In conclusion, I'd say he's a complete ass-klown. I don't care if he actually wins the bet, she's not going to be interested in dating him. He'll just come back in two weeks and start a thread with "What did I do wrong? How do I fix it?" anyways.
 

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ticks said:
But it worked, at least..
If i got rejected, i was just an joke..

tell me if you have a better way..
Well looking at your convo, the way she answered "sure" it didn't even look like she wanted to do it. Or at least was having second thoughts. But I don't see your "trick" as being successful until you two actually go on the date.
 

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ticks said:
Hey..

I just got a date with a girl. Here is how i did it.

I --> Who will win the world cup
She --> Italy
I --> I think France will win (Be honest, i think italy will win to, but i say France anyway)
She --> France will not win. Trust me.
I --> Want bet? Let's bet on a Buffet
She --> (umm.. thinking,) sure.

...

That is the trick. You see it?
u saying "lets bet on a buffet" isnt even an invitation for a date....she probly didnt even kno wat u were talkin about, and the fact that she sat there thinking and then said sure like that, it means she said w/e aka ******** for W/E I DONT UNDERSTAND BUT W/E I DONT CARE.

btw is this online? in person? have u met her b4?

next time if u really wanna sound better, say "aight lets make a bet, if italy wins, u get to take me out to dinner (****y/funny - notice how i worded it!), and if france wins, ill have to take u out to dinner (ur makin it sound like it would b a priveledge for her to take u out, but itd be a drag for u to take her out....u do so much with that line - u knock her off her pedestal if she was ever on one, u make urself the prize, u sound ****y/funny, and u lay out the bet in such a way that its a WIN/WIN situation!!

the only way she;'ll say no to that is if she had ZERO interest in going out with u in the first place, in which case u just forget about her.

sound good buddy?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
ROFFLMAO!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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of all the replies, this one is the best.

thanks buddy.

skip2mylou781 said:
u saying "lets bet on a buffet" isnt even an invitation for a date....she probly didnt even kno wat u were talkin about, and the fact that she sat there thinking and then said sure like that, it means she said w/e aka ******** for W/E I DONT UNDERSTAND BUT W/E I DONT CARE.

btw is this online? in person? have u met her b4?

next time if u really wanna sound better, say "aight lets make a bet, if italy wins, u get to take me out to dinner (****y/funny - notice how i worded it!), and if france wins, ill have to take u out to dinner (ur makin it sound like it would b a priveledge for her to take u out, but itd be a drag for u to take her out....u do so much with that line - u knock her off her pedestal if she was ever on one, u make urself the prize, u sound ****y/funny, and u lay out the bet in such a way that its a WIN/WIN situation!!

the only way she;'ll say no to that is if she had ZERO interest in going out with u in the first place, in which case u just forget about her.

sound good buddy?
 

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Nobody cares. People like you only come here to play games and fool around, while other people are honestly trying to learn and improve. This board would be better off if you just left it.....NOW!
 

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Invite her to go out and watch the game at a sports bar. Then while you're watching make your bets, like who pays the check.

You probably didn't fool her with your round-about way of asking her out. Women like the direct and confident approach.

like mentioned "betting on a buffet", might get you a gift certificate for County Buffet and not a date.
 

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ticks said:
of all the replies, this one is the best.

thanks buddy.
well im only gonna assume ur not a fake and u really do have a problem with girls (cuz wat u posted shows a big time problem), so i thought id help u

im not a flamer like some
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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