"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey..

I just got a date with a girl. Here is how i did it.

I --> Who will win the world cup
She --> Italy
I --> I think France will win (Be honest, i think italy will win to, but i say France anyway)
She --> France will not win. Trust me.
I --> Want bet? Let's bet on a Buffet
She --> (umm.. thinking,) sure.

...

That is the trick. You see it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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But I have question:

In case if I win, should I pay for the meal anyway??

Thanks for your feedback
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Of course you could always just ask her out on a date and not be homosexual about it.
 

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you can comment anything you want
if you are laughing at me, please give me a reason..

what is up with my trick?
 

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PowertripII said:
I'm sorry.. when did I stumble into the grade-school forum?
:cheer:
 

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ticks said:
you can comment anything you want
if you are laughing at me, please give me a reason..

what is up with my trick?
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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But it worked, at least..
If i got rejected, i was just an joke..

tell me if you have a better way..

oakraiderz2 said:
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
Please remember that we arent here to put others down. There is already enough negativetity on this board.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Please remember that we arent here to put others down. There is already enough negativetity on this board.
It's not really being 'negative' if you're right.

First off, he's using the oldest trick in the book (deception)
Secondly, he's trying to pass it off as a new way of breaking the ice. (whoopidty-doo!)

In conclusion, I'd say he's a complete ass-klown. I don't care if he actually wins the bet, she's not going to be interested in dating him. He'll just come back in two weeks and start a thread with "What did I do wrong? How do I fix it?" anyways.
 

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ticks said:
But it worked, at least..
If i got rejected, i was just an joke..

tell me if you have a better way..
Well looking at your convo, the way she answered "sure" it didn't even look like she wanted to do it. Or at least was having second thoughts. But I don't see your "trick" as being successful until you two actually go on the date.
 

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ticks said:
Hey..

I just got a date with a girl. Here is how i did it.

I --> Who will win the world cup
She --> Italy
I --> I think France will win (Be honest, i think italy will win to, but i say France anyway)
She --> France will not win. Trust me.
I --> Want bet? Let's bet on a Buffet
She --> (umm.. thinking,) sure.

...

That is the trick. You see it?
u saying "lets bet on a buffet" isnt even an invitation for a date....she probly didnt even kno wat u were talkin about, and the fact that she sat there thinking and then said sure like that, it means she said w/e aka ******** for W/E I DONT UNDERSTAND BUT W/E I DONT CARE.

btw is this online? in person? have u met her b4?

next time if u really wanna sound better, say "aight lets make a bet, if italy wins, u get to take me out to dinner (****y/funny - notice how i worded it!), and if france wins, ill have to take u out to dinner (ur makin it sound like it would b a priveledge for her to take u out, but itd be a drag for u to take her out....u do so much with that line - u knock her off her pedestal if she was ever on one, u make urself the prize, u sound ****y/funny, and u lay out the bet in such a way that its a WIN/WIN situation!!

the only way she;'ll say no to that is if she had ZERO interest in going out with u in the first place, in which case u just forget about her.

sound good buddy?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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oakraiderz2 said:
Youre a man yet youre prancing around the bushes like a queer...thats all.
ROFFLMAO!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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of all the replies, this one is the best.

thanks buddy.

skip2mylou781 said:
u saying "lets bet on a buffet" isnt even an invitation for a date....she probly didnt even kno wat u were talkin about, and the fact that she sat there thinking and then said sure like that, it means she said w/e aka ******** for W/E I DONT UNDERSTAND BUT W/E I DONT CARE.

btw is this online? in person? have u met her b4?

next time if u really wanna sound better, say "aight lets make a bet, if italy wins, u get to take me out to dinner (****y/funny - notice how i worded it!), and if france wins, ill have to take u out to dinner (ur makin it sound like it would b a priveledge for her to take u out, but itd be a drag for u to take her out....u do so much with that line - u knock her off her pedestal if she was ever on one, u make urself the prize, u sound ****y/funny, and u lay out the bet in such a way that its a WIN/WIN situation!!

the only way she;'ll say no to that is if she had ZERO interest in going out with u in the first place, in which case u just forget about her.

sound good buddy?
 

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Nobody cares. People like you only come here to play games and fool around, while other people are honestly trying to learn and improve. This board would be better off if you just left it.....NOW!
 

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Invite her to go out and watch the game at a sports bar. Then while you're watching make your bets, like who pays the check.

You probably didn't fool her with your round-about way of asking her out. Women like the direct and confident approach.

like mentioned "betting on a buffet", might get you a gift certificate for County Buffet and not a date.
 

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ticks said:
of all the replies, this one is the best.

thanks buddy.
well im only gonna assume ur not a fake and u really do have a problem with girls (cuz wat u posted shows a big time problem), so i thought id help u

im not a flamer like some
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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