"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think this girl likes me, but she has a bf. What should I do?

Juggaloryda

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There's this girl that I really like. We're actually really good friends. She has a boyfriend, and that's the only reason I haven't tried to hook up with her. She always flirts with me and talks sexual to me. I don't know if she's just playing around or if she's being serious. Yesterday, she asked me a kinda weird question. She asked me if her and her bf broke up, would she ever have a chance with me? She said she's not gonna break up with him, but she was just wondering. If they broke up, and she asked me out, she wanted to know if I would say yes or no. Then, she told me that she had a dream that me and her were having sex, and that got her thinking about stuff like that. I don't really know what to say about this stuff that she said. She has always acted like she likes me, but she also acts like she's not good enough to be with me. I think that's the only reason she hasn't dumped her bf. She doesn't think she would ever have a chance with me. So, I must be doing something right, because afterall, I'm the prize, not her.

So what do you think? You think she's serious about this? You think she really wants to be with me? What should I do? Should I just make a move on her on what?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i would remove myself from this game.
 

DismantleRepair

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It is not your responsibility to keep a girl faithful to her boyfriend.

That being said, if she cheats on him, she will likely cheat on you.

Tread lightly.
 

onyx

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DismantleRepair said:
It is not your responsibility to keep a girl faithful to her boyfriend.

That being said, if she cheats on him, she will likely cheat on you.

Tread lightly.
^^^
 
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