"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think this girl likes me, but she has a bf. What should I do?

Juggaloryda

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There's this girl that I really like. We're actually really good friends. She has a boyfriend, and that's the only reason I haven't tried to hook up with her. She always flirts with me and talks sexual to me. I don't know if she's just playing around or if she's being serious. Yesterday, she asked me a kinda weird question. She asked me if her and her bf broke up, would she ever have a chance with me? She said she's not gonna break up with him, but she was just wondering. If they broke up, and she asked me out, she wanted to know if I would say yes or no. Then, she told me that she had a dream that me and her were having sex, and that got her thinking about stuff like that. I don't really know what to say about this stuff that she said. She has always acted like she likes me, but she also acts like she's not good enough to be with me. I think that's the only reason she hasn't dumped her bf. She doesn't think she would ever have a chance with me. So, I must be doing something right, because afterall, I'm the prize, not her.

So what do you think? You think she's serious about this? You think she really wants to be with me? What should I do? Should I just make a move on her on what?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i would remove myself from this game.
 

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It is not your responsibility to keep a girl faithful to her boyfriend.

That being said, if she cheats on him, she will likely cheat on you.

Tread lightly.
 

onyx

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DismantleRepair said:
It is not your responsibility to keep a girl faithful to her boyfriend.

That being said, if she cheats on him, she will likely cheat on you.

Tread lightly.
^^^
 
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