"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think this girl is talking **** about me to girls I meet

SirFratserlot

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I made a previous topic about it before. This girl is a huge tease with an army of orbirters bigger than the Chinese army. I caught oneitis for her, but I snapped out it and started ignoring her. She still actively tries to tease me and is always at my parties. I just ignore and avoid her as much as possible. I started talking to another girl and not too long afterwards she found out. Once they became "friends", my plate started playing games and I dropped her. I had some thoughts whether she had any thing to do with her playing games or not, so I just made a topic on here and shrugged it off. Last night, I was hooked up with a date to this date party by my friend. I had no interest in her, but I did not want to the date party alone. The girl double texted me a lot and even invited me to hang out with her at some restaurant. I declined because I was busy, but I eventually met up with her for the party that night. It was obvious she liked me and even told me that I'm allowed to touch her and not be shy. Well, the teasing girl was at the party (they are in the same sorority lol) and she took my date to the bathroom to gossip about me (my date told me). Afterwards, my date told me she had a good time and to text her. I did not want to appear like an *******, so I texted her a simple thank you for coming the next morning, and she never responded back. I'm mad because I was just simply trying to be nice. You cannot even be friendly towards women even more.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheException

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Quit making excuses for your failures. Its irrelevant if someone talks sh1t on you.

she took my date to the bathroom to gossip about me (my date told me).

10$ you responded along the lines of...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: What? Really!? What did she say?

FAIL^

Should have said...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: Thats cute

Your biggest mistake was letting the other girl affect your frame and your failure to physically escalate because of it. You need to learn to not give a sh1t about what other people think...
 

Brighty

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TheException said:
Quit making excuses for your failures. Its irrelevant if someone talks sh1t on you.

she took my date to the bathroom to gossip about me (my date told me).

10$ you responded along the lines of...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: What? Really!? What did she say?

FAIL^

Should have said...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: Thats cute

Your biggest mistake was letting the other girl affect your frame and your failure to physically escalate because of it. You need to learn to not give a sh1t about what other people think...
Boom. Listen to this man, OP.
 
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