"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think this girl is talking **** about me to girls I meet

SirFratserlot

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I made a previous topic about it before. This girl is a huge tease with an army of orbirters bigger than the Chinese army. I caught oneitis for her, but I snapped out it and started ignoring her. She still actively tries to tease me and is always at my parties. I just ignore and avoid her as much as possible. I started talking to another girl and not too long afterwards she found out. Once they became "friends", my plate started playing games and I dropped her. I had some thoughts whether she had any thing to do with her playing games or not, so I just made a topic on here and shrugged it off. Last night, I was hooked up with a date to this date party by my friend. I had no interest in her, but I did not want to the date party alone. The girl double texted me a lot and even invited me to hang out with her at some restaurant. I declined because I was busy, but I eventually met up with her for the party that night. It was obvious she liked me and even told me that I'm allowed to touch her and not be shy. Well, the teasing girl was at the party (they are in the same sorority lol) and she took my date to the bathroom to gossip about me (my date told me). Afterwards, my date told me she had a good time and to text her. I did not want to appear like an *******, so I texted her a simple thank you for coming the next morning, and she never responded back. I'm mad because I was just simply trying to be nice. You cannot even be friendly towards women even more.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheException

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Quit making excuses for your failures. Its irrelevant if someone talks sh1t on you.

she took my date to the bathroom to gossip about me (my date told me).

10$ you responded along the lines of...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: What? Really!? What did she say?

FAIL^

Should have said...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: Thats cute

Your biggest mistake was letting the other girl affect your frame and your failure to physically escalate because of it. You need to learn to not give a sh1t about what other people think...
 

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TheException said:
Quit making excuses for your failures. Its irrelevant if someone talks sh1t on you.

she took my date to the bathroom to gossip about me (my date told me).

10$ you responded along the lines of...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: What? Really!? What did she say?

FAIL^

Should have said...

HB: Wow, your friend just was telling all sorts of stories about you in the bathroom
You: Thats cute

Your biggest mistake was letting the other girl affect your frame and your failure to physically escalate because of it. You need to learn to not give a sh1t about what other people think...
Boom. Listen to this man, OP.
 
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