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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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I think this girl has a crush on me

Tboneman

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So this girl (who's a 7 I'd say) seems to have a crush on me or something, but I'm not 100% sure. Basically, when we are in math together, she likes to talk to me a bit(usually about the work we're doing, though, but I'm the only one she really talks to), and apparently she talks to my brother alot about me in their Chemistry class. When I asked her earlier if she wanted to have lunch on the half day, she said she would if she could. Unfortuanally, that didn't pan out, because of different stuff that needed to be done, but that night, she said we could do it this weekend. Also, when she told me that she's getting a new MP3 player, she said that we could trade songs. I told her that if we were to do that, she'd have to go into my room. She was cool with that, and so next week or so I'm gonna have a girl in my room. Also, the other night, when I got online, she IM'd me immediantly and said "I missed ya". She'd been sick for a couple days, and haden't seen me in class.

We've known each other for over 5 years now, so it's not like I just met her and impressed her. I think that when I told her that I was single, she was probably like "Yes, I can go after him now!" Also, she'd been telling my brother that the girl I was trying to date earlier was using me, so I think she was also a bit jealous.

What do you guys think?
 

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cablecow15

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just ask her out i was in that position
before and i f$%ed it up by wait ing to see if she liked me
more but then she got a bf and then i got
sqrewed over after that
 

Tboneman

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Here's the thing: We're going to dinner of Saturday, then walk around town a bit. I'm gonna try to make a move on her then, like try to hold hands or something. Of course, she might only intend for us to be like friends, but I get a feeling that she wants more, I think...
 

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Originally posted by Tboneman
Here's the thing: We're going to dinner of Saturday, then walk around town a bit. I'm gonna try to make a move on her then, like try to hold hands or something. Of course, she might only intend for us to be like friends, but I get a feeling that she wants more, I think...
Holding Hands? Grab her shoulder and just keep walking. Put on some good cologne cause she'll be smelling you the whole evening.
 

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Originally posted by Tboneman
Here's the thing: We're going to dinner of Saturday, then walk around town a bit. I'm gonna try to make a move on her then, like try to hold hands or something. Of course, she might only intend for us to be like friends, but I get a feeling that she wants more, I think...
You've been here for a year, and this is the best you can come up with? Hold hands or something?
 

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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tboneman

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
You've been here for a year, and this is the best you can come up with? Hold hands or something?
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I havne't been on constantly....

But I like the sholder idea.
 

Tboneman

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Ok, so it appears she does not have a crush on me.

Apperently, she's batting for the other team, if you know what I mean.

I've suspected it for awhile, and I was right when I guessed who her partner was.

Well, at least now I'm saved from a potentially messy situation.

But still, thanks for the tips. I can use them NEXT time. Heh.
 
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