"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I think this girl has a crush on me

Tboneman

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So this girl (who's a 7 I'd say) seems to have a crush on me or something, but I'm not 100% sure. Basically, when we are in math together, she likes to talk to me a bit(usually about the work we're doing, though, but I'm the only one she really talks to), and apparently she talks to my brother alot about me in their Chemistry class. When I asked her earlier if she wanted to have lunch on the half day, she said she would if she could. Unfortuanally, that didn't pan out, because of different stuff that needed to be done, but that night, she said we could do it this weekend. Also, when she told me that she's getting a new MP3 player, she said that we could trade songs. I told her that if we were to do that, she'd have to go into my room. She was cool with that, and so next week or so I'm gonna have a girl in my room. Also, the other night, when I got online, she IM'd me immediantly and said "I missed ya". She'd been sick for a couple days, and haden't seen me in class.

We've known each other for over 5 years now, so it's not like I just met her and impressed her. I think that when I told her that I was single, she was probably like "Yes, I can go after him now!" Also, she'd been telling my brother that the girl I was trying to date earlier was using me, so I think she was also a bit jealous.

What do you guys think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cablecow15

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just ask her out i was in that position
before and i f$%ed it up by wait ing to see if she liked me
more but then she got a bf and then i got
sqrewed over after that
 

Tboneman

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Here's the thing: We're going to dinner of Saturday, then walk around town a bit. I'm gonna try to make a move on her then, like try to hold hands or something. Of course, she might only intend for us to be like friends, but I get a feeling that she wants more, I think...
 

The Master Disaster

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Originally posted by Tboneman
Here's the thing: We're going to dinner of Saturday, then walk around town a bit. I'm gonna try to make a move on her then, like try to hold hands or something. Of course, she might only intend for us to be like friends, but I get a feeling that she wants more, I think...
Holding Hands? Grab her shoulder and just keep walking. Put on some good cologne cause she'll be smelling you the whole evening.
 

DaKidS3

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Originally posted by Tboneman
Here's the thing: We're going to dinner of Saturday, then walk around town a bit. I'm gonna try to make a move on her then, like try to hold hands or something. Of course, she might only intend for us to be like friends, but I get a feeling that she wants more, I think...
You've been here for a year, and this is the best you can come up with? Hold hands or something?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tboneman

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Originally posted by DaKidS3
You've been here for a year, and this is the best you can come up with? Hold hands or something?
<.<

>.>

I havne't been on constantly....

But I like the sholder idea.
 

Tboneman

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Ok, so it appears she does not have a crush on me.

Apperently, she's batting for the other team, if you know what I mean.

I've suspected it for awhile, and I was right when I guessed who her partner was.

Well, at least now I'm saved from a potentially messy situation.

But still, thanks for the tips. I can use them NEXT time. Heh.
 
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