I think there might be something fishy going on...

[Blackhole105]

My girlfriend texted me today asking if I wanted to do anything tonight. I told her I was going out with a few friends and told her it's cool if she comes. to which she responds some old 'friend' she hasn't hung out with in ages wanted to hang out today. I tell her its cool if she wants to hang out with him (secretly I'm thinking "wtf!!") to this she responds:

'Uh nty. hes sum1 from my past that ive had alotta bad memories with. i just want to catch up on **** and hang out with him only 4 a lil bit.. i def want to go with u. whos gonna be there or how many ppl? cuz I prolly dnt know any of em lol'

My best guess is that its her ex-boyfriend that attempted suicide when she broke up with him...but idk why she wouldn't just say that.

My question is, what should be my response/attitude towards this when I pick her up tonight? should i ask who it is?

 

[Gustav Yavo]

umm the question is "why would she wanna meet up and shoot the sh!t with someone shes had bad memories about?"
its of course possible that its nothing, but to me it seems really dodgy and doesnt really say much, like shes trying to hide somethin...

 

[Playboy]

My girlfriend texted me today asking if I wanted to do anything tonight. I told her I was going out with a few friends and told her it's cool if she comes. to which she responds some old 'friend' she hasn't hung out with in ages wanted to hang out today. I tell her its cool if she wants to hang out with him (secretly I'm thinking "wtf!!") to this she responds:

'Uh nty. hes sum1 from my past that ive had alotta bad memories with. i just want to catch up on **** and hang out with him only 4 a lil bit.. i def want to go with u. whos gonna be there or how many ppl? cuz I prolly dnt know any of em lol'

My best guess is that its her ex-boyfriend that attempted suicide when she broke up with him...but idk why she wouldn't just say that.

My question is, what should be my response/attitude towards this when I pick her up tonight? should i ask who it is?

Drop it homeboy, let it go.

 

[Gustav Yavo]

if somethin similar to this happens again sometime soon then i would start to press for answers....

 

[Blackhole105]

Drop it homeboy, let it go.

what do you mean? drop her? or don't bring up the issue?

 

[Gustav Yavo]

im pretty sure he means the issue.

 

[DoctorLW]

She said she wants to hang out with you that night. I don't see a problem here. Tell her if she wants to hang with you to meet up after she sees her friend. I don't see the big deal here...

 

[drmeathead]

yeah as long as she goes home with you i guess right? on its face it is sorta ****ty she wants to catch up with an ex then she makes it ****tier by skimming on the details. you cant press her on the details as you will come off as a control freak chump but she failed in this spot when she didnt come to you with the details. that was the test here.

now as to your response...if her failing this test is a deal breaker for you then walk. if not then let it go but dont forget about it and begin to start to note a pattern. if the pattern becomes something you arent cool with then bounce.