I think the whole "privilege" thing is bullsh!t, but...

[Korrupt]

E.G. "white male privilege." However, female privilege is so f*cking strong.

Example:

*Texting chick about meeting up. I start f*cking around and make a VERY SARCASTIC joke about kissing Brad Pitt.*

Her: Hahaha now I question everything.

Korrupt: Now I've gotta charm & seduce the sh!t outta you to make up for it. Damn my sarcastic humor!

Her: Yeah you've got a lot of work on your hands seeing as you've gained 0 ground so far.

Korrupt: (Entering defensive mode) Well I haven't met you. That might be a contributing factor.

Her: Ehh possibly

Korrupt: (Defensive slowly transforming into "fvck you" mode) I'm guessing you've been seduced via text in the past.

Her: I've had boys (lol she calls guys "boys") attempt to seduce me in various different ways. Haven't decided which I like best yet.

Korrupt: Damn woman your privilege is strong! Do you do any work?

Her: I do what I want when I feel like it.

MY FACE:

Korrupt: (No sh!ts taken, no fvcks given mode) I hope you're at least semi joking. Arrogance isn't a favorable trait for me.

Her: Well I guess you'll just have to find out for yourself when we meet



Not sure if this was a sh!t test or if she's just an arrogant, privileged kunt who I shouldn't take out.

SIDENOTE: Devs of SS you guys are AWESOME. I wrote up this entire topic then accidentally backed out of the page and thought I'd lost 10-20 minutes of writing, then I clicked to add a topic and it was still here! AWESOME!

 

[marmel75]

Keep going...you are about to text yourself right out of going on a date...

Getting in a text argument(joking, real, imagined or any other kind) with a chick before you've met them is completely off the grid. Before you've met them texting should be for setting up a date/time/place to meet. PERIOD.

I have no idea why people try to re-invent the wheel and think the above kind of exchange is going to do anything other than get you to a place where you never end up meeting.

OP, don't do this type of dumb ass sh!t anymore. You might think you are "putting her in her place" but all you are really doing is eliminating yourself as a date option for her.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Keep going...you are about to text yourself right out of going on a date...

Getting in a text argument(joking, real, imagined or any other kind) with a chick before you've met them is completely off the grid. Before you've met them texting should be for setting up a date/time/place to meet. PERIOD.

I have no idea why people try to re-invent the wheel and think the above kind of exchange is going to do anything other than get you to a place where you never end up meeting.

OP, don't do this type of dumb ass sh!t anymore. You might think you are "putting her in her place" but all you are really doing is eliminating yourself as a date option for her.

Agree. Set the date up back out. Seduce her in person and setup dates where sex is the option. Let others overly text her, you can use text to setup the next logistics etc.

 

[yungballa]

Korrupt: (No sh!ts taken, no fvcks given mode) I hope you're at least semi joking. Arrogance isn't a favorable trait for me.

Her: Well I guess you'll just have to find out for yourself when we meet



Not sure if this was a sh!t test or if she's just an arrogant, privileged kunt who I shouldn't take out.

To be honest, I would've had the same damn response to a arrogant ass female, my brother. I might as well not get the date. There's a lot of things I hate dealing with in girls. And one of those is dealing with arrogant girls. At that point, I don't even care if I get the girl or not. That arrogance just threw me off; so I most likely would've kicked her to the curb.

 

[Korrupt]

To be honest, I would've had the same damn response to a arrogant ass female, my brother. I might as well not get the date. There's a lot of things I hate dealing with in girls. And one of those is dealing with arrogant girls. At that point, I don't even care if I get the girl or not. That arrogance just threw me off; so I most likely would've kicked her to the curb.

I can't stand it. These girls are arrogant as hell, which shows how insecure they are. And this girl is, I believe, 25 y/o. Like seriously? Grow the fvck up.

Also, I obviously didn't "lose" her (most likely worthless ass) as we can see by her last response.

 

[marmel75]

To be honest, I would've had the same damn response to a arrogant ass female, my brother. I might as well not get the date. There's a lot of things I hate dealing with in girls. And one of those is dealing with arrogant girls. At that point, I don't even care if I get the girl or not. That arrogance just threw me off; so I most likely would've kicked her to the curb.

You are missing the point. This whole conversation should have never taken place, and that's all on the OP

 

[parkthebus]

To be fair, it sounds like this is the first interaction they've had and it's been online. So you will have to have an initial IM exchange. So what you've done so far is OK as long as after she sent her last message you went straight to setting up the date and left it there. Also, I think you are being too self deprecating in your humour.

 

[RangerMIke]

Stop texting. This doesn't help anyone. Make a date, seduce in person.

Let's assume for a minute that it is possible to get a women's engine running by texting.... what the fvck are you going to do? Reach through the phone?

 

[Korrupt]

Lmao you guys take all this "game" too seriously. I don't really give a sh!t and only post on here for educational and ranting purposes. I already know what my strengths and weakness are, and I pretty much do whatever the fvck I want. If I want to talk sh!t to a girl via text I will.

 

[marmel75]

Lmao you guys take all this "game" too seriously. I don't really give a sh!t and only post on here for educational and ranting purposes. I already know what my strengths and weakness are, and I pretty much do whatever the fvck I want. If I want to talk sh!t to a girl via text I will.

That's your choice. But then don't turn around and get pissed if the chick flakes on you...it's a great way to text yourself out of dates, and makes no sense in the grand scheme of things.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I see what you guys here say about not messing up via texts and it makes sense in terms of decreasing the chances of meeting but at the same time I see what Korrupts is doing and why.

Its not only a matter of flakes but we need to filter as well, an arrogant cvnt via texts do you believe its gonna be a good date? do you believe she will make your life easier or rather will make you walk on eggshells through the whole date?

Personally at the cost of decreasing the chances to meet, I take my time to know better the girl before the date, surely I will have less dates but they will be better ones.

An arrogant cvnt remains an arrogant cvnt, unless your game goes beyond wizardry which is clearly not my case yet.

 

[parkthebus]

I see what you guys here say about not messing up via texts and it makes sense in terms of decreasing the chances of meeting but at the same time I see what Korrupts is doing and why.

Its not only a matter of flakes but we need to filter as well, an arrogant cvnt via texts do you believe its gonna be a good date? do you believe she will make your life easier or rather will make you walk on eggshells through the whole date?

Personally at the cost of decreasing the chances to meet, I take my time to know better the girl before the date, surely I will have less dates but they will be better ones.

An arrogant cvnt remains an arrogant cvnt, unless your game goes beyond wizardry which is clearly not my case yet.

This depends on whether you want a LTR or a lay though.

 

[Who Dares Win]

This depends on whether you want a LTR or a lay though.

I see what you mean I guess it depends on personal preferences, personally I dont find annoing cvnts useful in any field not even a single lay.

Also considering the time and current culture, the last thing you need is a cvnt who knows who you are and where you live, no thanks.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Guys, it's so easy. Text game is no game.

You are literally texting your way out of bedding this chick. Do you guys re-read your texts? That face is actually her face at the messages you are sending her. Just set up the date and ghost until the date happens. Put the phone down.

 

[old_skoolr]

I don't see how this is about privilege, all I see is weak game on a girl that's arrogant as hell.

Trying to joke around and be funny on girls like this is suicidal, ESPECIALLY OVER TEXT!!

 

[FCB]

Privilege exists and this is a good example why. Women in this day and age have a ton of options at the drop of the hat, get their ego boosted and get to walk into whatever situation they want with Online Dating and social media playing right into their hands. Options creates the ability for them to do whatever they want and if you won't take it 9 other chumps will and if she screws up she'll have 25 other chances to get it right. That is what privilege is and white males have gotten the same for years (I'm a white male). Sure men in this dating age can do well and can have a ****load of options but look at how hard we have to work, how much we have to learn and how difficult it is for us to achieve our goals vs women in this dating age, they can have sex whenever they want, they can have orbiters, they can have multiple dates, this is even for average looking girls not offering much. Don Juans are the vast minority, lots of these girls don't have to do **** to succeed in the dating game, just show up and have guys falling over themselves.

 

[Yewki]

Lmao you guys take all this "game" too seriously.

You take constructive criticism poorly

 

[EyeBRollin]

Privilege exists and this is a good example why. Women in this day and age have a ton of options at the drop of the hat, get their ego boosted and get to walk into whatever situation they want with Online Dating and social media playing right into their hands. Options creates the ability for them to do whatever they want and if you won't take it 9 other chumps will and if she screws up she'll have 25 other chances to get it right. That is what privilege is and white males have gotten the same for years (I'm a white male). Sure men in this dating age can do well and can have a ****load of options but look at how hard we have to work, how much we have to learn and how difficult it is for us to achieve our goals vs women in this dating age, they can have sex whenever they want, they can have orbiters, they can have multiple dates, this is even for average looking girls not offering much. Don Juans are the vast minority, lots of these girls don't have to do **** to succeed in the dating game, just show up and have guys falling over themselves.

Women do not have social privilege. On the contrary.

Yes, women have a ton of options. In reality, once a woman senses that you are a Don Juan... there is no competition. They fall over you. You should thank the AFCs out there. Remember:

Scarcity increases your value.

 

[FCB]

Women do not have social privilege. On the contrary.

Yes, women have a ton of options. In reality, once a woman senses that you are a Don Juan... there is no competition. They fall over you. You should thank the AFCs out there. Remember:

Scarcity increases your value.

I don't understand your point. I didn't say that women have social privilege, they have privilege in the dating world though. Don Juans are the very small percent of men in the dating scene who learn skills to gain the upper hand in that realm, thus overcoming the overall privilege of women in the dating world. Just like people pointing to successful blacks as an argument that white privilege doesn't exist are misguided, they usually have many difficulties to overcome to get there, whereas your average white dude has much less. ie, societal views provides privilege whether people feel it or not. In dating women are just in a better position on average to be successfull, men have to scrap against the odds to get to a level of a don juan.

 

[Korrupt]

My text game was so weak that she hit me up yesterday to set up a date for tomorrow. I'm telling you guys... Stop acting like this needs to be treated like a science.

When you're a loser, being yourself is the worst advice. When you're no longer pathetic, being yourself is the best advice.