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Like if you're super poetic....that's as good as an 8 pack
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think sometimes if u pour it on thick it can work
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Different strokes for different folks. One girl might think a poetic guy is romantic and charming, while another might think he's a total faggot.
Some girls like muscles, some (due to insecurity) prefer a softer body on a guy because it's less intimidating and she can feel like the catch.
The things ALL girls like are: Tall, hair on head, money, social status/fame/power, good looking face. Unfortunately, you can't control genetics.
Some girls like muscles, some (due to insecurity) prefer a softer body on a guy because it's less intimidating and she can feel like the catch.
The things ALL girls like are: Tall, hair on head, money, social status/fame/power, good looking face. Unfortunately, you can't control genetics.
Environment matters. Just like how women are influenced by social proof and what other women say, if they are in an environment or highly regard artistic types then that person will have high value to them. It may not be the best way to hold a women's interest long term without other standard Alpha tendencies but value is all perceived, and skills are always valuable, more so when they are something a person really identifies with.
Gonna just end this topic right now. Look at musicians, specifically guys who were sex symbols like Mick Jagger and countless others and who had lots of feminine tendencies, those guys were getting more women then anyone on the planet and it wasn't because they were super good looking. You can give a girl tingles in lots of different ways and being very skillfull at something is almost always going to be a big draw, the average dude can't really pull that off but women will overlook certain traits if they really value someone's skill.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My point wasn't that they were getting ***** because of their good voice or strumming a guitar but still that isn't a completely correct statement. They got their status because of those skills, they stuck out from the crowd which very likely led them to have more options/confidence and it snowballed. The key is its all perceived and really bull****, we all know that what a women feels is what drives her. If a women feels in her mind that a good singer is the complete alpha then she will treat him as such, if he reinforces that (if others think the same he'd be much more likely to do so and get the snowball moving) then that's all that matters. In society we've put high value on skilled entertainers, I know some musicians that don't have status or fame, they play in small bands without much fanfare but they get way more and higher quality girls then if they weren't.
Many women deep down want to recreate relationships with there fathers for one reason or the other, its not logical or valueable to them but based on experiences they are driven towards that. In society we create the value of musicians and entertainers, we are told over and over that these people are celebrities that walk on water. Now take a run of the mill musician or poet (who are basically singers without the voice) and they don't even have to be great because a bunch of women will still associate those people with that value/fame/status which is really all that matters (they are getting laid).
Its all perception and association which has layers on layers in society and peoples minds.