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Master Don Juan
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Like if you're super poetic....that's as good as an 8 pack
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
My point wasn't that they were getting ***** because of their good voice or strumming a guitar but still that isn't a completely correct statement. They got their status because of those skills, they stuck out from the crowd which very likely led them to have more options/confidence and it snowballed. The key is its all perceived and really bull****, we all know that what a women feels is what drives her. If a women feels in her mind that a good singer is the complete alpha then she will treat him as such, if he reinforces that (if others think the same he'd be much more likely to do so and get the snowball moving) then that's all that matters. In society we've put high value on skilled entertainers, I know some musicians that don't have status or fame, they play in small bands without much fanfare but they get way more and higher quality girls then if they weren't.I agree with your point on the skills, but disagree that musicians get pvssy because they have a good voice or can strum a guitar. They got pvssy because of their status bro. And fame. And wealth. I bet most girls tried to poke holes in their condoms.