"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think people think I'm soft

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I think I give up an impression as respected. I am pretty well respected, but today, I was with girls and they asked my sign and I told them Gemini. They giggled because I knew. Cool. But they read my horoscope, and it said blah, blah, blah. Then one of them proceeded to say "He seems like the guy that would buy girls and treat his girlfriend like a princess..." and I denied it. Then she said my boy would be complete opposite.


**** that kind of hurt.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you seem liked a softy because u need to crank up the CnF. Be a d!ck, be witty, be a smartazz.
"you seem like the kinda guy who would buy his girlfriend everything."
"nah, i'm more like the guy who wouldn't buy her anything, n shed still bake me breakfast in the morn. Thats how i roll" haha
 
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Patrick124 said:
you seem liked a softy because u need to crank up the CnF. Be a d!ck, be witty, be a smartazz.
"you seem like the kinda guy who would buy his girlfriend everything."
"nah, i'm more like the guy who wouldn't buy her anything, n shed still bake me breakfast in the morn. Thats how i roll" haha
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and that works? since when did lines from rap songs become the way to go? have you ever noticed how disgusting the females in rap videos look? i would prefer the girls in dance videos coming out of europe. i don't think they would exactly go for the "shake my cake" lines.
 
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One thing you need to learn, Nobody. Star signs mean **** all. Keep that in mind.

Second thing, you could have made a joke about her 'ideal' boy or something as such (I don't know, I'm only trying this stuff out just recently ha)

If you appear soft, you're not being firm in your decisions. Sure allow for people to give their opinion and such, but if ultimately you want something, and it's best for as many people as possible, stick to it. That will make you appear strong.
 
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Nobody said:
I think I give up an impression as respected. I am pretty well respected, but today, I was with girls and they asked my sign and I told them Gemini. They giggled because I knew. Cool. But they read my horoscope, and it said blah, blah, blah. Then one of them proceeded to say "He seems like the guy that would buy girls and treat his girlfriend like a princess..." and I denied it. Then she said my boy would be complete opposite.


**** that kind of hurt.
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Relaxed response . . .

"You seem like the kind of girl who opens her legs to multiple guys like a wh0re - but I kept that to myself"

Exit.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sparky0000 said:
and that works? since when did lines from rap songs become the way to go? have you ever noticed how disgusting the females in rap videos look? i would prefer the girls in dance videos coming out of europe. i don't think they would exactly go for the "shake my cake" lines.
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I'm the whitest kid you'll ever meet. Is ay **** liek ^ jokingly and the girls know i'm fooling around. and they laugh.
 
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