"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think people think I'm soft

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I think I give up an impression as respected. I am pretty well respected, but today, I was with girls and they asked my sign and I told them Gemini. They giggled because I knew. Cool. But they read my horoscope, and it said blah, blah, blah. Then one of them proceeded to say "He seems like the guy that would buy girls and treat his girlfriend like a princess..." and I denied it. Then she said my boy would be complete opposite.


**** that kind of hurt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you seem liked a softy because u need to crank up the CnF. Be a d!ck, be witty, be a smartazz.
"you seem like the kinda guy who would buy his girlfriend everything."
"nah, i'm more like the guy who wouldn't buy her anything, n shed still bake me breakfast in the morn. Thats how i roll" haha
 

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Patrick124 said:
you seem liked a softy because u need to crank up the CnF. Be a d!ck, be witty, be a smartazz.
"you seem like the kinda guy who would buy his girlfriend everything."
"nah, i'm more like the guy who wouldn't buy her anything, n shed still bake me breakfast in the morn. Thats how i roll" haha
and that works? since when did lines from rap songs become the way to go? have you ever noticed how disgusting the females in rap videos look? i would prefer the girls in dance videos coming out of europe. i don't think they would exactly go for the "shake my cake" lines.
 

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One thing you need to learn, Nobody. Star signs mean **** all. Keep that in mind.

Second thing, you could have made a joke about her 'ideal' boy or something as such (I don't know, I'm only trying this stuff out just recently ha)

If you appear soft, you're not being firm in your decisions. Sure allow for people to give their opinion and such, but if ultimately you want something, and it's best for as many people as possible, stick to it. That will make you appear strong.
 

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Nobody said:
I think I give up an impression as respected. I am pretty well respected, but today, I was with girls and they asked my sign and I told them Gemini. They giggled because I knew. Cool. But they read my horoscope, and it said blah, blah, blah. Then one of them proceeded to say "He seems like the guy that would buy girls and treat his girlfriend like a princess..." and I denied it. Then she said my boy would be complete opposite.


**** that kind of hurt.
Relaxed response . . .

"You seem like the kind of girl who opens her legs to multiple guys like a wh0re - but I kept that to myself"

Exit.

The Muscly Jerk
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sparky0000 said:
and that works? since when did lines from rap songs become the way to go? have you ever noticed how disgusting the females in rap videos look? i would prefer the girls in dance videos coming out of europe. i don't think they would exactly go for the "shake my cake" lines.
I'm the whitest kid you'll ever meet. Is ay **** liek ^ jokingly and the girls know i'm fooling around. and they laugh.
 
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