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I think I've set the wrong tone with this girl

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I met this girl about a month ago, and she was obviously interested in me, as I am in her. Because of the timing, and because of a lack of other quality girls, I asked her to prom after knowing her for about a week. We never even had one date...I didn't even have her phone number or anything when I asked! But she said yes (of course...lol) so that part is all good.

The thing is, I bought her prom ticket, I paid the one time we went out for lunch (skipped school :D ), and I am most likely gonna pay for dinner tomorrow (prom is tomorrow). Now, this girl is genuinely into me, and she isn't some gold-digging ***** or anything, but I don't want to be always paying for things. I'm planning on getting her to pay for some stuff once all this prom BS is over (I'm not even looking forward to it anymore), but is all this paying for her going to be a problem? Have I set myself up in a bad way?
 

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Ok, what I'm trying to say is, how can I change the pattern of me paying for everything. I know, I know, I never should have started, but now that I have, how to stop it? Somehow, saying "you have to pay your own way from now on" doesn't seem to charming to me.
 
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it gets tricky sometimes...

some girls on a date wont pay its just against their principles or some ****.. ive encountered those.... what you may wanna do (after your prom ofcourse) is to just tell her that its her turn to take you out (in a playful sort of way ofcourse) from her reaction you can deduce a lot of info...

good luck..
 
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sav said:
it gets tricky sometimes...

some girls on a date wont pay its just against their principles or some ****.. ive encountered those.... what you may wanna do (after your prom ofcourse) is to just tell her that its her turn to take you out (in a playful sort of way ofcourse) from her reaction you can deduce a lot of info...

good luck..
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I had this problem 2 weeks ago with a girl i am F/dating and indicated to the girl it was her turn... I have not seen her since...LOL
 

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