"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think ive messed up!

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Right here it goes!

Theres this chic I have been "friendly" with for the past two months she doesnt want a relationship and I hear stories of her being with other guys other than me! I said to her I cant be with you if your with other guys? (was that wrong to say) She said she cant get into a relationship because she isnt ready and she would probably be unfaithful if she did because of the fact she wasnt ready etc etc!!!! Now I said before she could say it well Its all or nothing then I cant be just friends!!! and she said "nothing then, because I cant give you what you want!"

I care about this girl alot and dont want to lose her can I turn around what we initially started out like or do I jus give up on her and NEXT the *****??? Ive been sayin **** like I can be your friend aslong as we F**k etc jsu graspin on to stuff but doesnt seem like that is working!!

Any Ideas on how I can turn this situation around would be gratefull!!!

If its best just to move on then let me know! I'm stuck in limbo!

Cheers
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Either keep fycking her and get a hold of your emotions(it sounds like you are completely incapable of that), or cut her out of your life altogether.
 
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Find out how to give her the best sex of her life.

David Shade you da man! Oh Yeah!!

Do it once, twice, then cut off the supply for a couple of weeks.
 
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She is being upfront about it - she just wants sex and nothing more at this point. So why not just give her that?
 
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